So me and my girlfriend had a long talk about our relationship since she is moving back down South (Aberdeen to Edinburgh) for the Summer due to summer break (3 months) from uni. We originally were going to just see each other every 2-4 weeks but some problems came up. She told me that she doesn't know if she can handle the distance since she hasn't in previous relationships. She also said that at the moment she doesn't feel like she loves me as much as she did but still cares about me and doesn't want to break up. She feels our relationship is at a weak point just now and can only get worse due to the distance.
I love this girl soo freaking much it hurt like hell hearing this and I broke down in tears but having her their to hold me lessened the pain. Things were feeling a bit off but I didn't think much of it and thought it was just something we needed to talk over and then it would be fine. I think she is perfect in every-way for me, we have soo much fun when we're together and I couldn't imagine my life without her in it. The only thing I can fault is that she doesn't seem to show or put in the same amount of effort to show that she loves me when we're not together (i.e. lack of communication when we're apart)
We are on a break until next weekend to kind of see what things would be like not seeing each other and we are going to decide after we see the new superman film if we are just going to be friends or try and continue the relationship.
Additional info: We have been together 6 months, been through a lot, she has hurt me in the past and may think she doesn't deserve me, we have had a break before and it worked out, its only a 2 hour drive away, i may love her more than she loves me, she is my first love, we still care about each other but not sure if the love is the same on both sides...
Any advice or opinions are greatly appreciated