Originally Posted by
K86
Perhaps I worded things wrong. I'm by no means a 'door mat'. I do things without her asking or demanding, because I want to - it's the kind of guy I am. I do the same to my other friends as well.
We text 8 hours a day because we both have nothing better to do at work. I sit in front of a computer all day looking at numbers.
I don't think she is a lesbian, I've considered it and joked about it with her a lot. Her current roommate is bi and has hit on her a few times with no response.
I'm afraid that confronting her about the boob playing leading to intimacy would end poorly. I think she is some kind of emotional sponge.
One other tid bit of information I forgot to share was she once told me she was borderline raped, and now has lots of trust issues. I chalk up all her lack of intimacy to this, since I know it's probably really hard to get over.
Regarding dating someone else. I've considered it, but I haven't found anyone who is nearly half as compatible as this woman is. I'm not into the whole 'make her jealous' thing either. If I date someone, it's purely for potential marriage, not for some harmless fling. /robot