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    How do you get him to approach me?

    There is this guy I met a few months ago and we have been talking. I know for sure he would rather people to approach him but I want to get him to approach me. What can a girl do to get him to do that?
    SN: He's not shy or anything so I know it's not that, and he's not in a committed relationship either.

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    Best advice I can give: accept a person for who they are. If their style doesn't suit you, then find someone else.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by destiny14 View Post
    I know for sure he would rather people to approach him but I want to get him to approach me. What can a girl do to get him to do that?
    If he wanted to get to know you better he'd presumably approach you. So my guess is that he doesn't fancy you.
    But here's a wacky idea. Why don't you approach him? I know it's a wacky idea but it is the 21st century and in some parts of the world there is this thing called 'sexual equality' where women are allowed to do everything men can do (well apart from pissing whilst stood up of course). So stop being a wimp and go for it.

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    Grow a spine and approach him instead.

    Quote: "If you can't make the mountain come to you, you must go to the mountain."

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    How old a re you guys? And where and how often do you ussualy see each other?
    If you want him do aproach then you have to get his attention first and you can get attention only by standing out from others.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    If you want him do aproach then you have to get his attention first and you can get attention only by standing out from others.
    Dancing in front of him naked whilst shouting 'come and get it big boy' might just do the trick.

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    Just naked tits or ass will be alot. Maybe ask him to help make copy of it while at work or invade his personal space with warm body of yours. Must say that looking just beautiful alone wont cut it, there must be some kind of action besides the looks.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Do you love this person?
    Deal with him gently to see if he loves you or not

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    @pcmaster We're both 20; college

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