For starters nobody chooses to be their height its mixed from genes & climate as far as my knowledge goes.
I'm a 6ft1 guy 23 years old & I've fallen for someone who is 20 - 4ft11 she's petite & cute but sometimes I feel like I'm towering her like a giant...
It's been 3 years since I have known her & I'm in the stages to consider marriage but my inner voice keeps telling me these stupid things about height I think it's partly because my father had always told me to "get a woman that stands shoulder to shoulder to you" he has repeated that like around 200 times in the past 3 years.