I have a Master’s Degree in Psychology and I don't believe in the term, Love addiction". Every human-being needs love ... and I believe there cannot be too much love. I think what you are talking about is low self-esteem coming from not enough or adequate love as a child. Maybe the 2 of you are not a good match ... or maybe you have commitment phobia ... or maybe you are too selfish for any relationship. There's not enough information in your post to know. We as humans function mating with one other person and complete commitment is an essential part of that. We as a society have screwed this concept up pretty bad.
By the way, kids are the number 1 cause of 2nd divorces. I know I'm a bit random her, but trying to address what you wrote about ... and on that note ... women need security much more than men do. Confidence and security are the top 2 things women are drawn to in a man.
If you know you can never be happy marrying her, why don't you just get out of this relationship and move on?
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