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Thread: How to message a girl of interest and former good friend..

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    How to message a girl of interest and former good friend..

    A) It's been years since I've seen her

    B) Just added her on FB

    C) Worst of all, she doesn't have her status listed

    So....how do I get a conversation started towards meeting up and also deducing if she's single?
    "1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"

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    " hi.....do you want to meet up sometime"

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    You have much better advice than that. That would definitely not work whatsoever.
    "1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"

    "Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"

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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungCosmo View Post
    You have much better advice than that. That would definitely not work whatsoever.
    Want to explain why? Just ask her how's shes Doing and stop being a Pussy

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    Hey, I haven't seen you around in ages. How's things?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb2 View Post
    Want to explain why? Just ask her how's shes Doing and stop being a Pussy
    Because that was ****ing moronic. Is that how you (don't) get girls? A) It doesn't even remotely open up conversation especially to find out if she's single B) It had the subtlety and suave of a cactus in one's anus.
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    Hey havnt seen you in awhile. How are you doing? Hows life been treating you?

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    OK, cool. That is infinitely better. Thanks, michelle! Ohh wait, wait, one last thing...PM, right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungCosmo View Post
    Because that was ****ing moronic. Is that how you (don't) get girls? A) It doesn't even remotely open up conversation especially to find out if she's single B) It had the subtlety and suave of a cactus in one's anus.
    Ask a dumb question, get a dumb answer

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    It isn't a dumb question but you sure gave one helluva dumb answer. Contacting a good friend from long ago with other intentions ain't as simple as your creep answer which I sincerely hope wasn't your legit answer..

    Teeny bopper? I'm nearly 23, bud.
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    It really wasn't that bad of an answer. You'd be surprised what people will do if you just ask, and asking a friend to hangout isn't crazy. You're a twat, so you don't have a chance in hell with this chick, but if you were as good of friends as you say, then you could definitely get her to meet up with you to catch up.

    Your question does make you sound like a teenager.

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    "Hey ! How are you, my long lost friend :-P? It's been ages... care to meet up for coffee/whatever and catch up ?"
    Last edited by searock; 14-05-13 at 05:40 AM.

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    You're a twat. Worse, you're some over macho bitch who's probably in the closet. His answer was so absurdly forward and creepy that no one could seriously believe it.

    And riiight...adults don't ask these kinds of questions at all. Riiight. And you calling me a twat is certainly a show of maturity. Well done, bud.
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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    "Hey ! How are you, my long lost friend :-P? It's been ages... care to meet up for coffee/whatever and catch up ?"

    Ooh, I am strongly considering that...yet, it sounds kind of date-like. Would it that second part be worked into a later message after first kinda setting the stage?
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    It depends on what you want. Would you like to meet her even if she is taken?

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