Originally Posted by
MMJ
The doubt that has been killing me is, When a girl looks at me walking through what does she actually feel...
Do they look at me like they look at any other normal guy or they pitty on me for my condition and look at me that way...
Am asking this cause when I goto a place I can see many girls looking at me, my mind always thinks like they are looking at my good aspects( I lift so have a good decent body )..
MMJ, my son has a degree of difficulty with walking, so I know the looks you mean.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Some people will judge and look down on the disabled - we have been blasted by car horns if he's too slow crossing the road. Other people will notice the disability and then look straight past it to find the person inside - thankfully this describes the majority of people in his life.
If I was in a night club and a person fitting your description walked in, yes, I would notice the physical disability. But only for an instant. After that, I'd notice the other things about you.
Having said all that, there are always those who only want a person who's appearance rates 7-10 as a partner. These shallow types will probably shave 4 or 5 points off you for having a physical disability and you won't get a look in. But do not despair - these are not the type of women you want in your life anyway. It's no loss.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.