Why society hate Forever Alones?

[TwillightBrony]

Funny....HIA and I had the same reaction...

And you completely misunderstood my post, Brony. It's not like they're giving advice. They're giving an option of who they could go on a date with and if the person doesn't go for it, it doesn't mean they're going to be "forever alone." Once again, you misconstrue what the definition of "forever alone" truly is. And you also misconstrue what the correct definition of "hate" is.

yes, I named topis "Why society hate" but I am economist and know a little about attention drawing...

nevertheless:

1) I am Twilly. You can call me also Grim Stallion ( made up this name few days ago...you will understand "Grim" when I get people to my hooves ;) )
2)how would you like to be told by one of your friends "Hey, Raven, I heard of your - you know that little exulceration you have down there and that guy, he is a really good urologist, you should talk to him ;)

who are you to care for other people´s intimate life? What you see as "option" I see as pure insolence. It´s like expressing "you are not manly enough to get yourself a chick. But we will help you, don´t worry we always take care of our less able frineds!" At this point maybe I should mention that I quite like competing in Muai Thai and also do some heavy lifting... So if anyone wishes challenge my manliness I couldn´t be more grateful for that. Honest! I assume you imagine Incels ( and therefore me also) as some little sad small lonely shy weaklings but you would be suprised...

3) forever Alone is an internet slang used for sociologic phenomenon called Involuntary Celibacy and basically it means "did not have sex despite continuous efforts and good physical and mental health for more that 1 year", 10-15% of population suffers from this and 4-5% of population did not have sex since their 18th birthday.


But idea of this thread people look down to Forever Alone people. I randomly asked the same question in another registration free forum and they with one voice agreed that people DO look down to there people ( as one cas see from this very thread ) but one guy got the point " people hate everything that is different. There is nothing you can do about it. You need to get along with it" and he was totaly right. 1)shut the f*ck up, never let anyone into your intimate life 2) if he does so, either ignore him or punch him to the face for his insolence. People need to learn a little respect anyway and mostly fact, that FA are not any poor lite timid fellas who tolerate anything. My coach had only best intantions with me but nevertheless I would love to tear him apart if I could get him to my hands. It´s like being critisized by some 15 y.o. kid who claim he know better everything in life despite he doesn´t have nearly my knowledge or experience. foolish a**holes!

and thank you also Raven for your majestic knowledge, what would silly little timid lone filly do without your life advices?

[TwillightBrony]

bytw Raven, how many woman have you flirted with? I made some estimation and I guess it´s ovr 700. So you can make a picture of my social experience. If you are not closing to at least half of that, maybe you should stop giving cheap advices.

[HeartIsAching]

His handle's ROWEN, dumbass.

[YoungCosmo]

He's been mentioning ROWEN this entire time? I really thought that perhaps there was a poster named "Raven" I had never seen before...WTF?

[rhonddamayne]

do we really need to have partners to be respected by society?

[Rowen]

1) I am Twilly. You can call me also Grim Stallion ( made up this name few days ago...you will understand "Grim" when I get people to my hooves )

First of all, you don't scare me, Brony. If you're going to call me "Raven" to, by my guess, try to get a rise out of me, there's no way in hell I'm going to call you by anything other than Brony.

2)how would you like to be told by one of your friends "Hey, Raven, I heard of your - you know that little exulceration you have down there and that guy, he is a really good urologist, you should talk to him

who are you to care for other people´s intimate life? What you see as "option" I see as pure insolence. It´s like expressing "you are not manly enough to get yourself a chick. But we will help you, don´t worry we always take care of our less able frineds!" At this point maybe I should mention that I quite like competing in Muai Thai and also do some heavy lifting... So if anyone wishes challenge my manliness I couldn´t be more grateful for that. Honest! I assume you imagine Incels ( and therefore me also) as some little sad small lonely shy weaklings but you would be suprised...

LMAO! How does your personal workout fit in with this? It should have NO BEARING on ANY discussion question regarding relationships. I don't care about how much you can lift. What I care about is your argument.

Also, on a few occasions, I've had people offer to set me up with someone. In the end, I just don't care, and I don't take it as them trespassing into my private life. Trespassing would be asking me how many times I jerk off and what to. Not to mention, in a case like that, it's not society hating the "forever alones" but the FOREVER ALONES HATING SOCIETY. Get it right. When someone offers to set you up with someone, they're not trying to trample through your life and interfere. They're trying to be a good friend and give you an option. It's like offering someone a piece of gum. But of course by your idiotic thinking we should refuse the piece of gum and say that the fact they offered is interfering in our personal lives! YOU HEAR THAT FOLKS? Don't take gum from your friends!

Also, your entire basis for argument is bullshit because it's based on a children's show and a twist of societal beliefs to suit your own view on people offering to set you up.

3) forever Alone is an internet slang used for sociologic phenomenon called Involuntary Celibacy and basically it means "did not have sex despite continuous efforts and good physical and mental health for more that 1 year", 10-15% of population suffers from this and 4-5% of population did not have sex since their 18th birthday.

But idea of this thread people look down to Forever Alone people. I randomly asked the same question in another registration free forum and they with one voice agreed that people DO look down to there people ( as one cas see from this very thread ) but one guy got the point " people hate everything that is different. There is nothing you can do about it. You need to get along with it" and he was totaly right.

Thank you for the slang vocabulary reference because I OBVIOUSLY did not know what a forever alone was... *heavy sarcasm* Not to mention, the scenario you originally posted above does not at all reflect a true forever alone. It simply shows a person who was given an option and decided that it wasn't for them. It wasn't any kind of blocker KEEPING them from it. They MADE THEIR CHOICE.

1)shut the f*ck up, never let anyone into your intimate life 2) if he does so, either ignore him or punch him to the face for his insolence. People need to learn a little respect anyway and mostly fact, that FA are not any poor lite timid fellas who tolerate anything. My coach had only best intantions with me but nevertheless I would love to tear him apart if I could get him to my hands. It´s like being critisized by some 15 y.o. kid who claim he know better everything in life despite he doesn´t have nearly my knowledge or experience. foolish a**holes!

and thank you also Raven for your majestic knowledge, what would silly little timid lone filly do without your life advices?

You've got some real problems, dude... Not to mention, why don't YOU learn a little respect too? Post a stupid topic, expect a joke. And when I give you my honest opinion, DO NOT disrespect me for disagreeing with you because you have no support for your side. All you're doing is talking all about how much you hate it, so why is that the right answer? My opinion is my opinion, and you can't tell me yours is right just because of how you feel. A DISCUSSION does not work like that. (Wow the word "discussion".... Someone get him a dictionary so he can look up the definition.)

And very nice touch of sarcasm at the end. Of course, the reason why you're still single is a TOTAL mystery...

bytw Raven, how many woman have you flirted with? I made some estimation and I guess it´s ovr 700. So you can make a picture of my social experience. If you are not closing to at least half of that, maybe you should stop giving cheap advices.

There's a difference between flirting and having a relationship and understanding people. The fact that you flirted with that many people doesn't impress me or make you any more credible. Give it up- I have a brain, a few morals, and can consider how someone else would feel. Therefore, I'm just as qualified as anyone on this forum, and your argument is invalid. Also, I'm not going to dignify your question with an answer because, by your thinking, that's a direct invasion into my life (AND WE DON'T WANT THAT, KIDS!).

If you think my advice is "cheap" please tell me more on why you believe your advice is so much better, of course given the fact that you're still single... I'm waiting?

Ps. I'm gay, so **** off.

[SmthJay]

do we really need to have partners to be respected by society?

Unfortunately in societal history, marital status is an indicator of place in society; in Japan if you are male, middle-aged and unmarried you'd quickly be an outcast (homeless)

We can't reinvent society but we can shape it by accepting different parts and diversity.

I feel that some people who yearn so much to be in relationships could be suffering from codependency...

You have an interesting question.

Why they look so much down to them (aehem..us)?

Most of my friends that are Forever alone are very tallented, hardwoking and it could be said special. They are strong personalities, successful in their own field and their abilities are often unmatched by their peers. Yet when someone mantion " I have issues finding a girlfriend" everybody thinks "Wow, what a loser! You must be somehow damaged , buddy" etc. Well every reasonable person know it is not true. so many "damaged" people are in relationships and have regular sex.... I had 2 dating coaches recetly. Despite how much effort I added to change me the looked so much down to me. Like I am not eligible.

Well why I lament? One must be fool to expect people act reasonably expecially in matter such as love, dating. Not a girlfriend = loser. easy as it is.

I dont even know why I am writing this. Maybe to relieve some stress.


btw 10-15 % of population did not had sex unwillingly in last 12+ months, 4-5% since thier 18. birthday, 20% of population does not reproduce and god know how many due to unability to find partner. welcome to the society of losers!

I agree the geniuses who are FA are dying off... the stupid are the only ones breeding -_-

Why are all Bronys closeted pedophiles?

that's a faulty generalization...

I personally like them because of how interpersonal the friendship gets and the demonstrated support system which I lacked as a child.

you must be trying to flame

[YoungCosmo]

Unfortunately in societal history, marital status is an indicator of place in society; in Japan if you are male, middle-aged and unmarried you'd quickly be an outcast (homeless)

We can't reinvent society but we can shape it by accepting different parts and diversity.

Yes, yes and yes a million times. In fact, I alluded to this before and it was shrugged off.

[Kromat83]

society wants everyone to be married and have kids.
Some of us choose not to, and stay single by choice like I am.
I wouldn't mind having a woman in my life, but need to change myself first, before that should be on my mind

[YoungCosmo]

Let's not forget that society doesn't think EVERYONE should be married; I am confident the majority feel that priests should not be married.

[IndiReloaded]

The real issue is you are lonely, right? The next barrier is you are afraid of rejection, yes? The solution to Issue 1 is to meet someone. The solution to Issue 2 is to take steps to make 1. happen.

Welcome to Game of Life. If you don't come to the table, you can't win.

If you are picky and like to triage prospective dates, try a paid dating website. They work. I met my SO that way. We both thought we were 'forever alones' and then found each other. Good luck.

[YoungCosmo]

Indi, how did you ever get to thinking you would be a Forever Alone: you're goddamned beautiful! No ****ing way that'd happen.

[basilandthyme]

I am confident the majority feel that priests should not be married.

Why would you believe the majority feel this way? I would think that if priests were able to marry, it could make them more relevant.

[YoungCosmo]

Yes, but that is logical. The majority aren't logical; most completely allow religious institutions to determine their opinion. Since the Counter-Reformation which introduced numerous changes in the Church, most of Christianity is purely subservience to whatever whims of the Church.

[Sportsman]

well I guess value of your social status very much depends on place where you live. For exaple, in huge city such as London nobody gives a cr*p wether you are married, single etc. But in small town everybody knows everything ( my explenation is they have nothing on their hands so they are killing time "acting cool" etc.) so Yes, your marriage status here is very important and people will look down to you if there is something wrong.