Originally Posted by
Cerby
Is she in the binder?
Excuse me, but what does that mean?
I have a coworker who is trying to get me on a site. She has TONS of dates, but to be honest, the way she describes these men kind of makes my skin crawl. She has two she dates regularly (one is married), and usually has a different third (and sometimes fourth) man she rotates in on a weekly basis. She's having a blast, and having lots of sex. The thing is, she LIKES the dating process.
I guess I am more serious, and I hate the whole feeling of being "interviewed", and the idea of sleeping with so many men at once is just... gross. Plus, I don't like feeling like I can't speak about things that actually matter to me, and being forced into small talk so as not to make some stranger uncomfortable.
Also, the two men I've met since I've divorced (one of them seriously) have had problems with dating site "addiction". I think dating sites tend to feed the idea that there is always a better one coming, just around the corner.
This woman at work says I will die an old maid. :/ Eh, I probably WILL. haha
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?