Fiance and i broke up, kids involved(not mine)

[J.loki]

My fiance and I broke up under mutual terms. The problem is we disagree on what to do with the kids. There is a 1.5,3,and 4 year old involved. Our relationship got to the point where they would call me dad and we love each other very much.
She thinks I should still see them now and then and still be around them, and kinda ween them off me. I told her I thought it would be best if I just stopped completely to cut the attachment as soon as possible, so not to drag it out.
What should I do? How can I convince her of my decision if that's the right choice?

[Immaisback]

No need to convince her bro, just change all your contact info. How the **** did you get involved with a broad with so many young children? Run as fast as you can, and when you get tried, get on the bus.

[J.loki]

Lol so what your saying is get all my stuff and she gets hers. Then just ditch?

[Immaisback]

Yeah bro, she'll meet someone else and then it will be awkward as **** if you keep going to see the kids. They are still young enough to forget you, and treat the next bro like a father. Sounds like you've had a lucky escape.

[J.loki]

That was my outlook on it, other than the disappearing act(changing contact number etc), but regardless that is probably the best thing to do I appreciate the advice.

[basilandthyme]

I agree that you don't need to convince her. Your decision is right for you and all you need to do is stick to it.

[Boisdevie]

Do what is right for you, not for her.

[Lovelyluv]

No need to convince her. If you continue to see the children, you will never leave. There will always be a reason, according to her, why you should come around. Those are not your children, run!