How to 'label' a relationship?

[JJhon]

Hey, about 3 weeks ago I met this girl through Facebook, she's kinda nice, and pretty, we hit of very well.

The thing is that I am liking her and she's liking me, on a conversation through text message she said that she wanted to kiss me so badly, but she wanted to keep 'good behavior' and decided not to take the first step. So I did the first step, we kissed...

Now we do everything like a couple do, being together in public, kissing, have dinner together. But if someone asks me: 'what is she to you?' I don't even know what to answer...

Can i get some advice how to 'propose' the bf/gf?

[HeartIsAching]

Ask her if she'd like to. If she says yes, then yay.

She may say "I thought we were."

Communication is where it's at.

[JJhon]

She talked about one relationship that a friend of hers had, that couple didn't labeled the relationship that they had...
And this story caught my attention...

[basilandthyme]

She talked about one relationship that a friend of hers had, that couple didn't labeled the relationship that they had...
And this story caught my attention...

And did she agree with their approach or not?

[JJhon]

She didn't mention it, but after a while they splitted up...

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[Ann S]

Isn't she a potential girlfriend? Ann

[davonr]

first of all you have to think did you think that you are in love.did you have seen any postive signs of her that she will be your gf.even you can purpose then what she says...

[basilandthyme]

She didn't mention it, but after a while they splitted up...

If she didn't say how she felt, then this has no relevance to your decision

[michelle23]

Just ask her straight "can we be exclusive"? if she says yes-then start calling her your gf. I presume neither of you are seeing anyone else anyway which means shes probably on the same page as you.

[JJhon]

Isn't she a potential girlfriend? Ann

Yes, she is.

first of all you have to think did you think that you are in love.did you have seen any postive signs of her that she will be your gf.even you can purpose then what she says...

i have seen some signs, yes.
i am all the certain that if i ask her to be exclusive, she will say yes, but i want to make that day (when i ask her) memorable

Just ask her straight "can we be exclusive"? if she says yes-then start calling her your gf. I presume neither of you are seeing anyone else anyway which means shes probably on the same page as you.

We are both on the same page, today we have a party to go to, where we need to use bracelets (Red - Compromised / Yellow - Undecided / Green - Single) and she asked me, what color would WE (not me, WE!) go with...

i want to ask her if we can be exclusive (i know that she will say yes) but i want to do with some class, i don't want to go to her, and ask "Can we be exclusive?" this is kinda lame to ask someone :\

i wanted some advice what to do (take her to a special place / landscape) and make that question

[HeartIsAching]

Forthright communications is not lame. You should try it sometime.

So... what color did you wear?

[JJhon]

Forthright communications is not lame. You should try it sometime.

So... what color did you wear?

Not did, will wear. Here is our conversation (sorry it's from Google Translator, i am not English native)

She:

Just curious xD
When the safety of Maori ask what color bracelet want, what do we want? XD
It's a very interesting question xD

Me:

I would also ask you the same thing later this night :s
But is it an interesting question ...
There is noting between yelow and red? xD
(I think that is where we are )

She:

We have the yellow
For me it doesn't matter we can even put green nobody has anything to do with it

Me:

I will not go with the green

She:

Yellowing?

Me:

Sure, but we can go with red if you want to

She:

Hmm I think we're still not quite there want to go with red?

Me:

I don't know, i wanted an opinion :/

She:

Don't you think that red is making "official"? :o

Me:

So that's why I was asking
Officially we aren't

[JJhon]

Continues here:

She:

Want to make it official?
We have a long time baby, we don't need to decide this on the knee because of a party

Me:

It is better not to make it now, when it is to do, i wanted to do in a special way, and not because a simple party

She:

I also think so When we wear red it will be red, until there we have the whole rainbow

[HeartIsAching]

Oh geez... she WANTS you to ask, man!

Tell her you want to wear red.

[JJhon]

Oh geez... she WANTS you to ask, man!

Tell her you want to wear red.

i know that she wants too, but i wanted to be a special ocasion, and not just because a party :\