hello, im a 39yr old male..... troubled as we all are in some way.... usually by my actions/reactions... having ended a 3yr relationship due to its many problems, mainly my ex not letting go and moving forwards, during our 3months apart my ex pulled her socks up and became the person i always thought her to be, and in we were apart we both kinda met new people.... due to my disbelief she could change i tried to start my life and even though my heart want over her i made the mistake of getting close to someone else..... all this did was make me realise who i wanted to be with 100%, but i fear now too much water has passed under the bridge............??