mutual friend of ex's party today, to go or not

[needadviceasap]

My ex girlfriend and I are currently in no contact as applied by her. The party is at a mutual girlfriends house. We met 9 months ago at the same girls house. She probably will be there. Would you go to the party? And if you go whats the best way to treat her????????please respond.

[OpticalIllusion]

Hell yeah, I would go. It's a great opprotunity to meet new people. That is, if you're single currently. Then again, a place to meet new single girls is somewhere i'd pretty much go to no matter what. You should not have to avoid her like the plague just because you once dated. Treat her as you would a female friend you aren't attracted to. Give her a bit of attention, just so she won't think you're an ass. But you guys are over, so don't overdue it.

[stardust]

Yep you should definately go! I agree with OpticalIllusion. Say hey be polite but don't revolve your night around her. Your over for a reason. Go, have a good time, meet new people and don't worry about her!

[misombra]

yeah go. she imposed the no contact rule if she doesn't want to see you then she shouldn't go. just be nice and like you're not bothered at all. talk to people and just be cool. but since she imposed no contact then don't approach her, just leave her alone... and let us know how it goes.

[bluesummer]

If you don't go you'll look like you're intimidated by her presence.
Show up and have a wicked good time. You'll forget she's even there.

[Illusional]

never let an ex hold you back. that's just pathetic. party like there is no tomorrow because you never know when you'll crash your car when you're drunk. whoa.. now there is a thought to live by.

raverboy

[stardust]

So then, did you go to the party? what happened?