We've been getting closer each time we work together. She put her number in my phone the other day, and since then we have been texting non stop until the wee hours of the morning, she even asked me if we're going to text the next day before she goes to sleep. But the problem is she has a boyfriend of a month. But I honestly think she talks to me more then him. I never been in this situation before, what should I do?
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04-03-13, 08:10 AM #1
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Never been in this situation before - help?
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04-03-13, 08:18 AM #2
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stop texting her. we alrady told you-she has a bf so you need to stop. imagine if she was ur gf texting someone else all the time. how would that make you feel? if you do get together-youll never trust her so your wasting your time.
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04-03-13, 08:59 AM #3
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this is the same post as your other one only with different wording. she has a boyfriend, it isn't right for you to be trying to make moves on her. if she doesn't want to be with the guy she'd dump him and go for you, and she hasn't has she? take it as it is and move on.
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04-03-13, 11:45 AM #4
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so texting someone until 5 in the morning two nights in a row doesn't apply anything, or when you know she was hanging with her boyfriend today and she said she was with friends means nothing at all?
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04-03-13, 12:53 PM #5
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Do you know if she's seeing him exclusively? If she hasn't made any promises or commitments to him, then I say 'go for it'.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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04-03-13, 09:51 PM #6
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What do you mean by exclusively?
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04-03-13, 10:02 PM #7
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exclusively means: they are both not allowed see other people
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05-03-13, 04:27 AM #8
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I think he said in his other thread that the other guy asked her out and is going by the title of boyfriend so I would assume they're exclusive... not sure why she would be texting this guy til 5 am but it's messed up to the other guy she's seeing
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so she's already lying to you? and I doubt she's telling this guy she's talking to you... why would you wanna be with this girl? she already seems shady
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05-03-13, 05:09 AM #10
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Chailli, you're the spare tire. Get in the trunk or bounce.
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desperate if you go after someone elses bird. get your own.
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10-03-13, 02:07 AM #12
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Turns out she broke up with her bf a while back, I didn't know. She told me yesterday.
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10-03-13, 05:23 AM #13
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ok then you have a shot. ask her out
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