Advice about women who use vibrators

[mydnyght]

I would like to see Hysteria now.

[HeartIsAching]

Why do women need a vibrator? why cant they just use there hands like guys do?

...because they're not guys?

And good job too.

[boofywantabone]

Great information and insight thankyou!

[michelle23]

I don't like vibrators. I masturbate with my hand or in the shower. It is just a quick fix when your horny. Same reason men do. We have needs too. That doesnt mean that she will prefer the vibrator to you. Not at all. Id much rather my boyfriend give me an orgasm than by myself and he does most of the time but if hes not around whats a girl to do? lol!

[smackie9]

LOL this is so much like women complaining about guys watching porn, it's not a replacement but always feel threatened, like a guy feels competition with her big 9" dong.

[HeartIsAching]

It is, isn't it? Hadn't thought of it that way, but you're right.

[starlight87]

Think about it. We are made differently for one thing...fingers are not like a penis and the vibrator gives us a different type of intense orgasm. We like different sensations too you know. Have you not heard of the fleshlight? Maybe you should buy yourself one of those and give it a try.

And we don't "need" to have one, but it's a nice alternative.

Summed up pretty well! So I'm not gonna repeat it. I prefer the real thing, but it's a handy alternative. Clearly you're not with your girlfriend all the time, so sometimes she can't just ask for it.

[onesexyblonde]

i think masturbation is weird and i wouldnt do it and im not even having sex

[MaidenMinx]

i think masturbation is weird and i wouldnt do it and im not even having sex

Really?! Do you think orgasms are weird too? I'm not picking on you, I am just surprised.
For a lot of people, men and women, masturbation begins at a young age as a part of self exploration and grows into something more pleasurable.

[onesexyblonde]

Really?! Do you think orgasms are weird too? I'm not picking on you, I am just surprised.
For a lot of people, men and women, masturbation begins at a young age as a part of self exploration and grows into something more pleasurable.

never had an orgasm and i just think that mastubating is werid

[MaidenMinx]

never had an orgasm and i just think that mastubating is werid

Oh, hun, I feel for you. Best way to make sure you have an orgasm is relax and give yourself one. That way you know what does it for you and you can tell your partner what to do to make sure it happens from his attentions.
What exactly is weird about masturbation? Is it just female masturbation, or do you find guys masturbating weird too?
(again, not picking on you, just really curious)

[onesexyblonde]

Oh, hun, I feel for you. Best way to make sure you have an orgasm is relax and give yourself one. That way you know what does it for you and you can tell your partner what to do to make sure it happens from his attentions.
What exactly is weird about masturbation? Is it just female masturbation, or do you find guys masturbating weird too?
(again, not picking on you, just really curious)

i think its weird for girls i know guys do it just not girls and i think touching yourself down there is just weird and gross and unessacery and i dont really think im missing out because ive never had an orgasm before and i just dont think i ould give myself one bsides the fact that i dont know if i could relax enough to do it i wouldnt know how

[bearz]

Well you should definitely try. I can't believe you are not curious enough to even try it once. It is nothing to be ashamed of.

[onesexyblonde]

Well you should definitely try. I can't believe you are not curious enough to even try it once. It is nothing to be ashamed of.

im not eve curious to think about tring it its not even that im ashamed it just weirds me out i know my bf does it and thats oerfectly fine but a girl doing it is weird

[bearz]

The thing is that it is not weird at all, it is perfectly normal. You just have not experienced it yet and therefore think it is something weird.