Masturbation.

[IndiReloaded]

Indireloaded this has nothing to do with me or my bf. He doesnt watch it but i wouldnt give a toss if he did. People on here are ignoring the fact that i pointed that out numerous times but are still getting out the pitchforks because i pointed out some of the reasons it bothers some women

And so it does. Just like some ppl don't like oral, or anal or whatever. People feel what they feel and like what they like, like flavours of ice cream. Is there logic to the fact I prefer maple rum raisin to plain vanilla? No.

[tassy]

[QUOTE=rob1984;876137]lol, i do not smoke pot, but i did as a teenager, no one said watching porn is to interpret what a woman is looking for in bed, lol, do you drink at all. maybe some wine or anything ? but since its legal, its not bad for you. pot is the devil right.. ppl watch porn for the fake noises and how we want to have sex. show me where I or anyone has mentioned this. Again its your own insecurities that brought up the comments above. Woman now a days are smarter.. they play those being controlled roles cause they get paid for it.. just like some girls that strip and pay for college.. are they bad people.. no I think they are smart. I'll show my boobs and some guy will give me money,

I couldnt read any further than "since it's legal it's not bad for you" my goodness what a fool you really are Cigarettes???????????????????? Dont know what else you had to say here as i could not read any more you make no sense. Take care now

[rob1984]

try reading slower then.

[Wakeup]

And i do think men who watch porn regularly while in a relationship dont find their partner attractive.

Indireloaded this has nothing to do with me or my bf. He doesnt watch it but i wouldnt give a toss if he did. People on here are ignoring the fact that i pointed that out numerous times but are still getting out the pitchforks because i pointed out some of the reasons it bothers some women

Michelle, just a question regarding this contradiction. If you wouldn't give a toss if your bf watched it, then in saying that ^^^ if your bf wanked to porn, you'd be okay even though you think that men who wank to porn no longer find their gf's attractive?

To add: I realise you said 'watch' When the thread is about masturbating to it. What about if he masturbated to it but didn't deny you ever.

[Rowen]

I know I've missed most of this discussion, but I agree it shouldn't be a problem in relationships. While it's great knowing that you get the other off, sometimes you just want to get off alone. At least, that's how I feel. I don't want a guy on top of me all the time. Sometimes, I just want release with private thoughts of mine. It's not cheating; it's just space in a relationship.

I read the beginning of this thread, and I saw people mentioning a user whose boyfriend thinks it's wrong for her to use a vibrator. My ex and I still keep in touch (only for the purposes of being civil and I feel he's suffered enough since the breakup), and his fiance doesn't let him touch himself, think about touching himself, watch porn, or imagine anyone else if he does disobey and masturbate. Karma's a b*tch.

[Wakeup]

I read the beginning of this thread, and I saw people mentioning a user whose boyfriend thinks it's wrong for her to use a vibrator. My ex and I still keep in touch (only for the purposes of being civil and I feel he's suffered enough since the breakup), and his fiance doesn't let him touch himself, think about touching himself, watch porn, or imagine anyone else if he does disobey and masturbate. Karma's a b*tch.

How on earth do you even know such intimate details regarding an ex's new relationship.

[HeartIsAching]

Lol this argument is pointless and ridiculous since your clearly going to ignore everything i say and presume you no me and my bf.

Since my what?

[michelle23]

If someone prefers to watch porn all the time than to have sex with his partner- it prob is bcoz he finds her unnatractive or else he has an addiction.

What other explanation is there?

[michelle23]

Since my what?

I was talking to rob

[Rowen]

How on earth to you even know such intimate details regarding an ex's new relationship.

Hahaha He tells me because he wants sympathy. I don't give it to him. He's made his bed, and I cringe at even being in the same room as the sheets. xD

[Wakeup]

I cringe at even being in the same room as the sheets. xD

... lolzzz ...

[HeartIsAching]

I was talking to rob

Ok... what is Rob's "Clearly"?

[Wakeup]

If someone prefers to watch porn all the time than to have sex with his partner- it prob is bcoz he finds her unnatractive or else he has an addiction.

What other explanation is there?

But you didn't say "then to have sex with his partner" This is where people challenge you. You simply said if they watch porn then they don't find their partner attractive. Then you said you don't mind if your boyfriend watches.. but you haven't explained how you'd feel if he masturbated to it while watching. Only how you feel if he watched and you keep saying you'd "join him" How would you feel if he wanted to do it alone but he still had sex with you whenever you wanted?

[rob1984]

If someone prefers to watch porn all the time than to have sex with his partner- it prob is bcoz he finds her unnatractive or else he has an addiction.

What other explanation is there?

lol and the funny part is no one has even said this.. no one said they prefer porn over their partner. Simply men watch porn.. jerk off when they feel they want to.. has nothing to do with their partner

[Rowen]

... lolzzz ...

Well, it's true. lol