Hello all,
I need help with my ex.boyfriend situation.
I'm always too worried about anything, like if he said he's coming at 10 and it's 11 and he isn't there I panic .. not thinking that he's cheating or anything but thinking that something might've happened/accident and so on. and I KNOW it's so so so wrong.. its just the way I am
anyway we've known each other for 8 years, dated for a year (fiance) but we broke up due to many factors and we decided to remain friends..
the break-up part was from his side obviously it's the first time for me to be dumped, but I really loved him and if I had the choice, I wouldn't break up with him even though he isn't like the best boyfriend ever.. but I just loved him I guess., honestly I still do and I'm not thinking of having another guy ever, even if it means I won't have him either.. I think he knows that
The break-up went bad, as I started it but I was angry, then he got angry and I backed-up kind of, and he insisted in the breaking.
As I mentioned I've known him since years, after the break-up he was so quiet and I was worried something is wrong, probably missing us and that's fine really
but after around 3-4 months of the break-up (we were still talking as friends, just saying hi and stuff) he completely changed..
He started talking to over 100 girls, previously he only had like 2-3 girl-friends, I don't understand what does it mean.. he isn't that kind of guy but I know his friends are, probably dragging him there and he got convinced and it's all guys thing? is he just normal trying to find another girl of his life by doing that, or is he just hurt and trying to get revenge over me?
I didn't know about the girls until he told me to be honest, he wanted me to know, is it for me to get jealous or feel guilty? or is he really fine and trying to move on..
when the break-up happened he was worried I'd do that, like hang out with 8723874 guys which worries him because that action in his eyes would be out of anger-hurt something like that, and I told him no way I'd do that. but now he's doing it, does it mean what he said to me? and if so should I do anything or ignore?
Thanks a lot for your help..