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    This morning I asked him if he's married. He told me that he got divorced last year and his ex and three children live in New York. The oldest is eleven and is in a wheelchair with cerebral palsy.

    I think he got the hint, because he asked me if I want to have coffee sometime and he took my number!

    What really bothers me is that on campus, almost no one has an actual boyfriend and I can't stand this business of hooking up with a guy and seeing him tomorrow with some other girl.
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    By the way, he drives all the way to New York once a week to visit the kids. That's a lot more than my dad ever did for me.

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    Oh oh daddy issues......

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    I would definitely be wondering what the hell a 50 year old divorce with 3 kids has in mind with a immature 18 yr old. There is only one plausible explanation... Young pu$$y. Don't be expecting him to introduce you to any of his friends or kids. At least younger guys haven't yet mastered manipulation and deception, a 50 yr old can play you and you wouldn't have a clue until its too late. Does he know your real age?

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    He knows I'm in college and over 18.

    I think we are two lonely people.

    Is there something wrong with a girl wanting an older man to take care of her? Hasn't anybody else felt that?

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    I think I'm a lot like Maggie Gyllenhaal in Secretary

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretary_(film)

    (that's my favorite movie!)

    and he's a lot like Dr Drew

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drew_Pinsky

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    You live in a fairy tale world. Don't say you hadn't been warned.

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    You poor girl

    I'm about this guys age and can tell you without a doubt you're cruising for a bruisin

    Anyway ....you've managed to ignore all the advice given to you so good luck with all that !

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    I know he's better than the asshole who took my virginity and got me pregnant.

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    Oh so he MUST be a great catch! He's better than an asshole. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by coedmary18 View Post
    I know he's better than the asshole who took my virginity and got me pregnant.
    That was your fault as well darly

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    Ya it takes two to tango. It was your choice to be with him...he didn't kidknapp you and held you by gun point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by coedmary18 View Post
    He knows I'm in college and over 18.

    I think we are two lonely people.

    Is there something wrong with a girl wanting an older man to take care of her? Hasn't anybody else felt that?
    No.. but then I had a very good Father/Daughter relationship and I'm quite capable of taking care of myself. (while having a partner who has my back when I simply need a shoulder).

    Do you live on your own, Mary? If you still live with your mother, don't take grampa home to do him, he might like your mom better. O.o

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    But do you guys realize that guys my age have been watching porn since they were about eleven? I'm not going to do a thressome so that some jerk maybe will like me.
    Last edited by coedmary18; 10-01-13 at 02:57 AM.

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    ... silly girl.

    One wonders what you'll do so that grandpa will maybe like you???

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