Opinions Needed!!

[bah1112]

So i have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. We get together at least 3 times during the week for dinner and a least one day on the weekend. He calls me on his lunch break everyday as well as on his way home from work and before he goes to bed . He has met my daughter and some other members of my family. He has been been to my home several times. BUT I AM NOT ALLOWED TO GO TO HIS HOME!!!When I ask him about this he gives me a generic answer like "Oh, I dont like my house." I need opinions about this. I am not to sure how to take it. I also think his generic responses are bs!!!

[basilandthyme]

He's hiding something. He could have a wife....or his home could be filthy....or perhaps he's a hoarder. But no matter what it is, it's something he doesn't want you to see.

I wouldn't take the risk of continuing to date someone who was hiding a big part of his life from me.

[surfhb2]

Massive RED FLAG!!

[bah1112]

My thoughts exactly. I cant even consider it a serious relationship. Although he is the one that insists and insisted intially that we date exclusively. I have also brought the topic up in conversation on numberous different occasions and i just get blown off. I have even asked him directly about the wife and or other woman and he swears there isnt one. He just "Doesn't like his house. "

[dem862]

What doesn't he like about it?

[bah1112]

He just says he doesn't like it. All i have gathered from out conversations is that he lives with his brother who doesn't work and
He has a dog. I have met both the brother and the dog.

[surfhb2]

Doesn't like what? The dog fices in the living room? The dead hookers in the backyard storage shed? You should knows this shit before getting too involved