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[HeartIsAching]

No, I don't mean don't make an active effort - I mean don't stress over it. If you're interested in a girl, and you think she might be interested in you, by all means, ask her out.

And this is for both you and LR - there's a very easy way to tell whether or not you should try:

Look her straight in the eyes (look NOWHERE ELSE, I know the temptation is strong) and smile. If she smiles back, you've got a shot. If she doesn't, move on.

[OKANEED]

Awesome thanks! Hmm I will keep that in mind, is this in the middle of a conversation or when I catch eyes with her?

[HeartIsAching]

At the beginning of the conversation is best - but there's no hard and fast rule.

[OKANEED]

Thanks I appreciate it, and with some luck I will be back with a success story!

[HeartIsAching]

See LR? This is how it's done. The boy's got panache. You should try it sometime.

[OKANEED]

See LR? This is how it's done. The boy's got panache. You should try it sometime.

Ahh I haven't been described as that in some time Probably about time I got my head out of the books and showed a bit of flamboyance indeed xD

[Love'sReject]

See LR? This is how it's done. The boy's got panache. You should try it sometime.

Yeah, but I hate my smile. I rarely have reason to so after years of not, my smiles look strained and weird.

[HeartIsAching]

Always with you it cannot be done.

[Love'sReject]

If you were me, you'd have a hard time getting girls, too.

[searock]

Not because of your looks.

[OKANEED]

The Game by Neil Strauss (Can't post a link, being a "noob" to this forum )

Personality and Humour is everything - Looks change, they can be altered easily, personality is another matter. I read this book last week, and it just goes to show that looks mean nothing, they can help, and they can make it more difficult, but they are not a be all end all! I am not suggesting you devote your life to treating women like objects, or conquests, but as a proof-of-concept that women are not as shallow as you might think!

[HeartIsAching]

Looks are highly subjective anyhow - particularly in males. My wife says I'm the most handsome man in the whole world, and I'm sure that's true - to her. I know for a fact that I'm not even close as far as smackie or Vashti are concerned.

[OKANEED]

I would rather be funny and not good looking than good looking and a complete dolt. Plus in my opinion (almost) everyone is able to have a shower, cut their hair, smile a bit and wear some reasonable clothes and look good. Well if there is ever a vote, you can count on me if you ever run for Most Handsome Man in the (Whole) World xD