Can't Get A Girlfriend

**aoxibol** · 08-12-12, 07:17 PM

Hello everybody. Maybe you can help me. I'm 24, and my last girlfriend was 15. Over the years, I have used dating sites, speed-dating, street approaching, told friends that I like that I have a crush on them, and done just about everything. People always say to me 'all you need is confidence.' So I've seen hypnotherapists, gone on confidence courses, met with 'pro-daters' and you name it, I've done it. No woman wants to be with me. It got the point where I didn't have s*x in 4 years. On average nowadays, I have s*x once every two years, which led me into p*rn and h*oker addiction. I am really in a lonley place right now, and not sure how to get myself out of this cycle. I am starting to wonder whether I am figthing against a brick wall of fate, and this is just not meant to be. It sounds crazy, but it is incredibly frustrating when you have been alone for so many years and no one wants to be with you and no relationship works out.

Any pointers?

LonelyGuy

**Call Me Maybe** · 08-12-12, 10:29 PM

There is something more you are not telling us. Do you have unrealistic standards? Are you hideously ugly? Do you have horrible fashion? etc

**PradaChanel** · 08-12-12, 10:34 PM

What were you doing with a 15 year old? I assume that it was easier for ou to get her since your having issues dating in the first place. It has to be more to it then that.

**dem862** · 09-12-12, 01:43 AM

Sex is like trying to get a loan from the bank. If you need it, they don't wanna give it to you.

**smackie9** · 09-12-12, 01:52 AM

Try a life coach. They will be brutally honest of what you are doing wrong and give you direction on how to make your life more positive and fulfilling.

**Love'sReject** · 09-12-12, 03:43 AM

Holy crap... you've had sex? Lucky son of a bitch.

**When.Doves.Cry.** · 09-12-12, 04:04 AM

Originally Posted by Call Me Maybe

There is something more you are not telling us. Do you have unrealistic standards? Are you hideously ugly? Do you have horrible fashion? etc

^Exactly. There's no way on Earth that this situation persists without some other factor. The sooner you're honest about what it is (OP), the more honest advice you'll get.

**surfhb** · 09-12-12, 04:18 AM

Originally Posted by aoxibol

It got the point where I didn't have s*x in 4 years. On average nowadays, I have s*x once every two years, which led me into p*rn and h*oker addiction

Id imagine it has something to do with the fact you feel to need edit words like sex, porn and Hooker. Just throwin it out there....these are yellowish to red flags

**Love'sReject** · 09-12-12, 04:22 AM

I am sure I'm not the only one who wants the OP to explain the "15 year old": I am guessing that must have been a while back, while the OP was at an age where a 15 year old girlfriend isn't pedophilia?

**Fruitsss** · 09-12-12, 05:20 AM

15?? u r a pedophile and her and her parents shou;d report u for molesting a child/ there is to much wrong with u and im glad no woman wants u u r a sick bastard.

**basilandthyme** · 09-12-12, 06:12 AM

OK, tell us why a woman would want to date you? Perhaps share what you'd write on an online dating website

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