Hey ladies this is my first post but I dont know what the hell is going on, maybe you can give me a clue...
-Both in our early 30s
-dated for 6 months
-I broke up with her but I had not choice as she kept doing things that would piss me off/be disrespectful/treat me bad for the last week. She knew it was going to come. Its almost like she wanted me to BU with her. So even though I am the dumper I feel like the dumpee.
-Not sure but think there was someone else although she denied it of course.
-When I dumped her the last time she took it in stride not tears like the other times...like she was ok with it.
-Since the BU I have never contacted her once. Its been 8 weeks hardcore no contact
-She has sent me probably 20 texts, mostly breadcrumbs but there was a couple really long ones saying she missed me and stuff and loves me. Wants me in her life blah blah. The last one was tonite saying I love you. Keep in mind all these texts are over a 8 week period.
-I have not responded to any of her 20 texts and havent responded to her since the day of the breakup.
-I have not responded to anything because I think she feels guilty for treating me bad and just wants to relieve he guilt and give her a ego boost.
-I feel responding to her at this point is a no win situation. It would just go back to the same **** or she wouldnt even respond, or hear things I dont want to.
-But why keep contacting me? Why is she so persistant? If she wanted to get back together wouldnt she just say it. And if she wanted me back wouldnt the texts be like a couple a week but more?
-Do I break NC at any point?
-How to play this if maybe I want her back?
Thanks to all those that reply.