As above, I do not like to post for the sole purpose of posting some BS because I have no life outside of this silly forum.
Also, I pointed to you, months ago, that your (females') flooding of this section with unsolicited advice is disrespectful to OPs and males who post here. Just sayin'.
Go and re-read the threads in which you have actually posted some advice (they're not many), and compare the advice you offered with the advice given before you by some female poster. You'll see that most of the times you'll find a match.
It doesn't take a man to understand a man (unless it's for strictly physical issues or something). People are people, driven by the same basic emotions, and any good people reader can understand both a man and a woman in most contexts.
Just to update my situation: I acted cool, didn't text him waited for him to do so, which he did, a couple of days later and it hasn't stopped since. We r like texting
each other all the time, he cooked dinner, we hung out with his friends, went dancing and had late night conversations and I totally like the relationship we are in. There has also been a lot of sex and we are both sleeping with other people as well. I am totally enjoying polyamory.
Both sleeping with other people, lol, yeah, good one.
^You should follow whatever his advice is; he knows how to get his guy back, all right.
OP - But, you said in your very first post that you have feelings for this guy? So now you are compromising yourself to only a FWB type of situation? Good lord...why? Trust me I know how powerful rationalization can be. Do you think that by giving him what he wants (sex with no commitment) will make him care about you more and then develop feelings? It wont happen.