I started seeing my ex for the first time 10 years ago. I was 20
and he was 26. 4 years ago I told him I wanted a baby, his baby.
He told me no he didn't want to ever have kids, I made a choice I
wanted to start a family and we broke up. He started seeing someone else immediately, she looked just like me, but she was crazy. She bit him, threw things at him, scratched him, would call him names all sorts of things.
One night about 3 years ago there was pounding on my door, I knew it was him because we have a secret knock. I opened the door and he ran in, begging for help, she stopped taking her bc and was pregnant. My heart sunk, my baby was sitting there telling me someone else was having his child. 9 months later his daughter came, I stopped speaking to him. I couldn't listen to it anymore, he and the mom broke up. Over the next year we started talking again. He and his daughter came over a lot and still have been.
We still sleep together all the time if he has her she stays in the guest bedroom, the most painful thing toever happen was one night she knocked on my door to come In because she was scared we let her in and she fell asleep cuddled up with him, I cried myself to sleep and he held my hand.
We had a heart to heart one night, and he told me he wants me back. He loves me, but he doesn't want to be the father of my
children... I'm so mad at him and confused. I love his daughter she's
wonderful, but I am still heartbroken and really don't want to be a
stepmom. He told me he'll do anything to change my mind just not have
kids... Does anyone have any advice on what to do?