ANOTHER DUMB GIRL MISTAKE
Hello, so where do I start. I am in school to become a pharmacist. One day I was in the Library in my scrubs when this sexy man in his scrubs walks in we gave each other eye contact and smiles the entire time. We never spoke. I kept seeing him around campus, but only smiles. Finally we spoke an exchanged numbers. Now here is where the red flags started surfacing (stupid me should have noticed). We began talking and texting and he was like "you look so sexy outside of your scrubs, I kept having very dirty thoughts about you". I laughed it off and didnt think much about it. We started to flirt more, I was so attracted to him. We met up at his house finally, he cooked me an amazing dinner and we talked about life and school (he is 42, im 27). We kissed and things got heated, eventually, we made love (I know, stupid me). It was amazing. Later that week I left school late only to find him flirting with another girl, and she got close. I try to talk to him about and he brushed it off claiming I was starting drama and he does not like drama. I was so pissed, anyways I brushed it off. We kept seeing each other but mostly sex. Recently, I was over his house hanging out having dinner, he said his friend (this girl) was coming over. She came over, she was pretty cool, but I am very shy so I kept drinking to open up. Things got pretty wild and the next thing I know we were all kissing and touching each other. Apparently the girl was BI and she was very attracted to me, so I was like what the heck. He was enjoying it. Later it turned into a "sort of" 3some. When I was ready to actually have sex with this guy, the girl left and it was just the too of us, drunk, wild and having amazing sex. The next day we hooked up again. The problems I face with this guy is:
1. No date, lots of good sex
2. Sometimes he doesn't answer my calls, or text, or return text messages with one word/2 words (he is working on his masters in physician assistant and claims he is very busy)
3. His friend (that girl) kept telling him how much I like him but he acts all shy and stupid
4. No talk about a possible relationship (I mean I kinda threw myself at him)
5. The past couple times we had sex, we used no protection (I know that was stupid) now im freaking out cause he never pulled out and it seems to not bother him.
6. I am in a bad place emotionally because I feel im getting used, I am an emotional mess. I am a shy, quiet girl who made this mistake and now I am liking this asshole alot for no good reasons.
I just dont know what to say to him or just walk away, leave this behind like it never happened.
Please share your advice, feedback (positive and negative), anything....I am open