I befriended this boy I met over the internet (I don't need a lecture on online dating being dangerous, I know he is who he says he is, etc.), we'll call him "Sam". I immediately started crushing on him. I kept my crush to myself because I had never really been interested in an online relationship after an incident before (To summarize, I liked a guy for four years I met over the internet, he led me on, etc etc.). Eventually I befriended one of his good friends, who noticed I sort of seemed to have a crush on him, and eventually asked me straightforward if I had feelings for Sam. I confessed and he said that Sam had feelings for me as well. One night I took the risk, and confessed I liked him. He admittedly said he liked me too and thus, we started dating. Things were going well, unfortunately I didn't always have the time to spare when my parents constantly walked in during our video calls, and I didn't want them knowing about my relationship (they're 100% against online dating) and things started getting rocky. Now, I have a lot of insecurities, most of them brought on by anxiety, but I'm very fearful that once I get really close to the one I'm dating, they'll just up and leave me. A lot of that got in the way, and I wasn't as affectionate to him as I should've been. I broke things off in confusion, and he seemed extremely hurt. Eventually I came to terms with things and we got back together. Now, I was about to start college, and once again, fear got the best of me, and I worried that I would have no time for him during college, so I gave him an excuse that I wanted to meet other people (which in all was the WORST idea and excuse I have ever come up with). We broke it off, once again. During college, all I could think about was how much I had missed him, and I just decided that I needed to make up my mind whether I really want to be with him or not. So I decided to wait a bit to tell him one last time (I figured he wouldn't forgive me, but I figured i'd try anyhow).
I wanted to tell him a week before I actually did, but I was scared. Well, I told him, and I found out that he is currently dating an old flame that he had recently started being friends with again. I've been so regretful for the past few months, and depressive. I adore this boy, and I don't know what to do. I'm friends with him still, and even his girlfriend, we're in several tiny chat groups and such together, at first I tried to move on by dating other guys but I still constantly thought of him. It hurts now to see them together being all lovey dovey together and still have these strong feelings lingering for him. I don't know what to do, I fear that they'll never be over :/. I'm not sure whether to really move on, or to hold on and wait for them to split. Any ideas?