Originally Posted by
haxan
Hey, someone who gets it
Well, Indi gets it, but she abandon(s)ed me when the heat gets turned up (duly noted)
Actually Haxan, I think you are putting far too much emphasis on the sex. I know you are a guy, but still. Plus, the OP explained herself and you are continuing to argue your point. Not everyone rolls the way you do. You need to respect others POV on this. If she's not ready (whatever reason) she's not ready. We aren't reading this as her giving the guy blue balls for 6 months. As a guy, your continued pressing of the point might lose *you* a great gal. The argument goes both ways.
BTW, Wakeup's response to your 'gonna lose him' comment made me mentally snort as well. If a guy walks after 2 weeks like that b/c of no sex, I'd be glad to see the whinger go too.
LOL... I seriously doubt I'll miss out on a "great guy" just because I didn't f*ck him right away...
This right here^. As for this:
If you're a smart guy/girl, going with your gut, your instincts is the only 'best way'.
I disagree, at least as you state it. I think what you mean is when your intellect and your gut are congruent. Beware if they aren't. Sorry, but too many people get into trouble following their gut/heart and not thinking enough about things for this to be true.
Emotions up = intellect down. Woe to those who don't *think first* before choosing to let their emotions carry them away.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 03-09-12 at 02:24 PM.
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