Another girl responded my text messages to him.

[nsf]

I have a guy not a boyfriend, we had mutual understanding i would say. On our first date he said he wasn't in a relationship. we are 3 hours far away from each other. our communications was thru text and phone calls but most of the time thru texting. Most of the time I was the first one to text him, I can count in my fingers how many times he texted me first but I always thought maybe he is busy because he has several businesses to look after. One day I tried not texting him first and see if he will text me or if he will miss me, unfortunately 5 days passed didn't receive any text from him. So i tried to text him again one night saying 'I missed you' and surprisingly I received a reply 'who are you', ' are you my girl', 'this is daughter, who r u', 'pls dont text me again, i have gf already' so i texted back 'sorry' then after an hour i received another text saying ' sorry it was my daughter texted you her phone was broke and have to lent mine because she's going out'. I texted back 'that is ok, don't worry I understand' but in my mind it wasn't daughter, i had a feeling of it was another girl.

Next day morning he texted me saying exactly this:
hi, need to clarify last nite. the person on my phone not my daughter, i had an old girlfriend asked to stay at my house while she was in canada, she was using my room, and i was using couch. I left my phone in room, because i am used to charging it there, when u texted, she is the one who picked up, and responded. I was very angry with her because i was doing favor letting her stay. My daughter was in her room beside mine, and thought at first her doing it, but when i found out, i told her she would have to stay at other friends house, she leaves australia friday. Sorry for last nite, I was not happy when I found out.

I cannot understand why he should tell me these while he can stick on his first version of it was the daughter.

I want to ask him questions but i know for myself i don't have the right because I am not a girlfriend to him. I am hesitant to tell what i feel about it. I did not answer back the text because don't know what to say. Do you think guys it is proper to answer him back after all?

[cheekxs]

Yeah if he is not your bf i understand what you mean. But if you like him i would

still text him like: i thought you said it was your daughter first. well i think you are quite busy then , enjoy it ,good luck!

[nsf]

i did text him back and added I am jealous, he replied back i like you but we cant be in a relationship right now because my life is too complicated. I like you so much and i like texting ang talking to you.

[cheekxs]

now you look like a full for adding that you are jealous.

you should have just say that and let him find out by himself.

[AskingQ]

I think unless you are looking for something strictly casual, you might be better off letting this guy go. He is flat out saying he isn't interested in a relationship, and I think when guys say stuff like that, it's best to just take it at face value.

[daygamedatingco]

he is pretty interested in you, because he was too anxious of lying to you, if you really like him and feel like having a relationship with hi9m, just continue texting him and do not lose communication, until you get tired of waiting for him

[vashti]

Don't waste your time on this one. It sounds like too much drama for someone who isn't interested in a relationship anyway.

[Ange Barnes]

Let this one go!