Yeah this is just a memory right now, I'm over this crap already since 3 years I guess. The only thing that helped was cutting myself off and ignoring them. Nothing else was helping. Eventually they stopped, cause they see it doesn't drive my attention. Unfortunately you can't do it, cause you have kids together, but there has to be some optimal alternative and outside option. Don't you have your family around, to take care of your children? But anyway, his mother should still do it, in the end, it's her grandchildren too.
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No, I don't. =[
That's what sucks.
I also just found out that the page is really his by putting in his email as forgot password and it went straight to it.
Til this day he lies and says he doesn't use that email anymore because he "forgot" the password and doesn't
remember the answers to the security questions, yet it's the same email address he uses for PSN that he plays everyday.
But why are you upset with it... It's not a surprise for you, right? You have to leave, it's not doing you good... And when you are not good, your kids aren't either. I am 100% sure if you leave him, there is someone waiting for you, who will not make you insecure, where you will not have to control him, cause he will give you enough confidence. It's not going to be the end of the world. The best thing to do is to make the first step without looking at the possible results. After you'll be put in the new situation and you'll be forced to move on. You understand me? Now you have the doubt, what if, maybe you will not make it, but once you end up "in the middle of hell" you will have the only option, and the option will be to make everything work.
There are so many things that we don't imagine we could do, until we are forced to do them. And it works. Be strong, it's for your sake.
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Listen, almost every member on this forum went through a bad breakup. It's the main reason why we end up being here. And we managed to get through the rough time, which means it is possible. Look it was hard for me to finally admit that my ex was treating me like crap plus that he was lying to my face on every occasion. But somehow I got myself to kick him to the curb and I found someone new, who's not giving me drama, who's loving me for real, who I don't have to control, because I trust him and I KNOW he is not cheating on me, who's helping me when I have problems, who's supporting my decisions, who finally is planning his future with me and not anybody else. Don't you want someone like this?
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You see what I mean? I come in the house and ask who he is talking to.. he puts the phone down and says.. " WHY?! MY COUSIN.. GOOD GOSH! " and rolls his eyes.. smh.
and then those email addresses he said that he let a friend in prison borrow.. he never mentioned that to his cousin on the phone.. he just told his cousin that he had lost those email address passwords..
So, go figure. Smh. Lie lie lie.
I am sure there is lots of guys out there who will not care that you are a mum of 3 little kids You never know!Of course it's a bit more difficult, but there are enough nice guys who don't care about it. Be a strong woman. Actually what I should tell you is that you don't need a man to be you. You have to first learn how to be independent and then when you realize you don't need a man, then you will find one. He will find you.
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I think he is cheating on you.
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