I really like this girl that I met about a month ago. For the first couple weeks we messaged all the time, inquired about eachother... just really enjoyed eachother's company. We have met up four times in total, none of them being a romantic date... but moreso just hang outs where we get to know eachother.
After the third "date" I kissed her. She seemed really into it and her body language suggested she was very happy I kissed her.... but then immediatley after that the messages stopped. There was about a whole week where I had to initiate every conversation and she seemed a little colder and little more distant. I decided to invite her to a get together at my house, so I did. We had a fire on Friday....
Well at the fire she was very distant. I kissed her when we had some time alone but it lacked passion.... I felt like she was not into it. I asked her straight up about it and she said "I'm sorry! I'm just so tired from work!" so I believed her....
Later that night we went to bed together. We didn't fool around or have sex, but just cuddled and slept. I made out with her a few times that night, but every time I didn't feel that passion on her end. When we woke up we sat and talked for hours and made out a few times. I confessed to her that I get nervous around her at times, but that I really liked her and I hope my nervous reactions didn't send the wrong message out..... she seemed to open up a little more after that but she still was distant. I then told her that I wanted to take her out on a romantic date, and that she should let me know a good time for that. She said "ok." but did not seem enthused. I asked her if she was actually into me and that it wouldn't hurt my feelings if she wasn't.... she reassured me she was but her body language suggested otherwise.
When she left later that morning I was convinced it was over as I was sure she was not into it. So I decided to not message her and to let the chips fall where they fall. Well.... she has been messaging me ongoing since then! Last night she was even like "I wish you were here" and things like that.... I am absolutley dumbfounded by this. What do you think is going on with this girl? Is she just playing games? Ladies if you think you know what is going on, please share some input because I just have no idea what to think. Am I just setting myself up for failure or do you think otherwise? Also, what should I do about the date idea... she still has not told me a good time (albeit it's only been two days, so I understand) but do you think I should take the initiative or wait until she mentions it?
Sorry about the long background story, I just feel it's important to add detail.