I just mean being on top or leading in general, every time I try to take charge he won't let me and just takes over.
That's not domination, that's just being assertive.
Domination is when you say to him: "On your back now, bitch, because it's time to take what I want." And you say it with a smile. Ah, fun times!
And if he's taking too long, give him a "5 minute warning". Tell him "I'm getting sore, here's your 5 minute warning to finish up." Or "I'm getting sore, I want to feel you cum in me now." Notice the "now" gives him a definite time frame. Don't do/say anything that can be interpreted in multiple ways.
Some people, have trouble speaking up and asking for what they want. I think you need to get past this. In the end, if you don't ask for what you want, you only have yourself to blame.
Last edited by bulrush; 16-07-12 at 11:31 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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