How to guide your man to take the romantic lead

[Lovelytips]

Some men just aren’t in tune with
their romantic side. Fortunately, most
men can be taught, given the right
attitude. Proceed carefully and don't
ever pressure your man into romance.
Here are some initial tips:
The golden rule is to lead by example.
Remember, you want your man to
take the lead, but, on his terms, not
yours. Start by pampering him. Do what
he likes to do best -- even if that is
drinking with the chums, playing a video
game, or just watching TV on a Saturday
night.
Doing this, a spicy ending to any of
these activities will be much more
favorable for him. Afterwards, show him
you'd appreciate similar attention
towards you, and eventually he'll get the
bigger picture.
Take charge of a great night out with
your man .
Plan an entire night on the town
and then let your man just come along
for the ride. Women need to appreciate
just how difficult it can be for the man to
always be the one to find creative and
fun things to do.
It can be very romantic for the man
when his lady takes charge in this way,
finding a new restaurant and activity for
them to enjoy. The man can find this very
exciting and will be open to romance
afterwards, once an enjoyable evening
has been spent together.
Turn romance into a competitive game.
Alternate planning weekly date
nights with your man and plan an activity
that will appeal to his competitive
nature. Men will often want to take the
lead here because they find great
pleasure in outdoing their mate.
Finally, make sure your man knows how
much you appreciate the little things
that he does for you .
This can be cooking a great meal
when you are tired, opening the car door
for you, treating you to a chocolate heart
when you are feeling blue, any number of
thoughtful, little things.
Make a point of mentioning that he
does this for you in front of your friends
and watch the envy of the other ladies
ooze all over the place! Your man will
take notice and feel loved! Romantic
moments should quicken with this plan!
There are definite things that you
can do to encourage your man’s romantic
nature. All he may need is a little
suggestion, knowing how much he is
appreciated and a few well thought out
challenges to get his creative juices
flowing.

[Boisdevie]

Start by pampering him. Do what
he likes to do best -- even if that is
drinking with the chums, playing a video
game, or just watching TV on a Saturday
night.
Doing this, a spicy ending to any of
these activities will be much more
favorable for him.

Does this mean a blowjob after he's finished watching the football on TV with his friends?

[smackie9]

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay (happy you idiot!)and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
A good wife always knows her place.

[Boisdevie]

As always Smackie makes perfect sense.

[smackie9]

Well there's always "Steak and a Blowjob Day" It's march 14th so mark your calendars!

[oldskool83]

bottle of lotion he wont let you alone them. MAKE A DOZEN wings afterwords he be worlds best man for an hour.

[smithdbrain]

what an idea?

[alishass2040]

very true nice sugession