A young hot lady confessed that she really likes me, now what?

[DVR1]

Hi people,

part1
Was having a drink 2 weeks ago with some friends and suddently a hot
young (very beautiful) lady joined our table. I had no idea who she was,
but some of my friends knew her, as she is a famous "playette", (she just
gets lot of attention from men, but she sleeps with nobody).

We had a really good time that night and she was flirting me (a little).
I liked her since the beginning.

part2
So, some days later I met her again at another place, she asked me to join
them and we had a really good time, It was obvious she liked me (a lot) and
I started teasing her (a lot). She was asking to know "EVERYTHING" about me!
Later on she says to me: "It's really early on to say this, but you seem like
a really good guy to me" ...

Night closed well, teased her in a playful way, (trying to bust her balls, she
is a super hot lady).

part3
Met her again, 2 days later, and managed to isolate her from her girlfriends,
she was responding really well and after some minutes she says to me:
"I was watching you since a month now, you caught my interest and I wanted
to know everything about you! I know some of your hobbies, your family,
where you live ..."

Then she says "...I got hurt really bad in the past, from a man, and I don't
want to get hurt once again, you seem like a really good guy to me" (!!!!)

I was surprised (I didn't show her at all) to hearing all these, and how she
trusted me (was just the 3rd time we met, and wasn't even a date).

After 2 hours talking and full of teasing from my side (busting her balls, in
a playfull way) I had to leave, and then she re-joined her friends.

Conclusion
How should I proceed now on, she is a very hot lady getting many attempts
from men, but she got hurt really bad in the past, and seems like very hard
to trust BUT she is willing to risk it with a guy that caught her interest, which is ME.

Should I trust her words? OR it may be just another attempt from her side
to have another guy chasing her??

She revealed too many details of what she is looking for ... although I am
a really "fresh" guy in her life.

My friends, say I should try a sexual movement the sooner with her, or else
she will try to find another man (she was pretty straight forward that she
likes me a lot!).

I think I should not try to pressure her at all, BUT to gain her trust and
at the same time seduce her.

Don't know why, BUT, I think she may suddently turn like a 180 degrees,
and get myself confusing. She opened to me so fast ...which is no good at all.

Any ideas?

[D e L]

Conclusion
How should I proceed now on, she is a very hot lady getting many attempts
from men, but she got hurt really bad in the past, and seems like very hard
to trust BUT she is willing to risk it with a guy that caught her interest, which is ME.

Sounds like a no brainer so far...

Should I trust her words? OR it may be just another attempt from her side
to have another guy chasing her??

Only one way to find out... I would enter into the situation with this in the back of my mind. I like to give people a chance, but try not to be gullible at the same time. I would be very cautious if games start being played.

She revealed too many details of what she is looking for ... although I am
a really "fresh" guy in her life.

Kinda came on a little strong knowing so much about you so quickly... I dont know if that is an angle or what. But her knowing so much about me and me knowing almost nothing about her would make me cautious. She could be on the rebound, this could be her hook, or she could genuinely be that interested in you.

My friends, say I should try a sexual movement the sooner with her, or else
she will try to find another man (she was pretty straight forward that she
likes me a lot!).

Wait a minute, are we talking about forming a relationship, or just trying to get into this girls pants? I get it if she is attractive, we all would think about it, but that shouldnt be your end game. Besides, if she is just going to move to another guy if you dont bang her within some time frame, she is not the kinda chick you want to be dealing with.

I think I should not try to pressure her at all, BUT to gain her trust and
at the same time seduce her.

If she is genuinely as enthralled as you say, seducing her will not be an issue.

Don't know why, BUT, I think she may suddently turn like a 180 degrees,
and get myself confusing. She opened to me so fast ...which is no good at all.

Any ideas?

She very well could... and I would definitely be prepared for that. Like I said, if it becomes less about forming a relationship and more about playing games, I would tell her to take a hike. Hot or not.

[Boisdevie]

She sounds like she enjoys playing games. If she doesn't let you **** her pretty soon move on.

[DVR1]

She sounds like she enjoys playing games. If she doesn't let you **** her pretty soon move on.

Well, she may be BUT I had to know some things about her since her confession..
She got hurt really bad from her 1st guy ever, 2 years ago, and now she is protecting
herself.

There were many "players" guys hitting her but she was just playing them, testing them,
but as far as I know they were pressuring her for sex stuff etc, so she left them ALL
wanting some more of her...

One good clue here, is she is the one to hit on me, out of the blue, so she is talking the
truth for sure.

Just, want to balance the trust with her with seducing her and moving things forward.

[Cerby]

Well, she may be BUT I had to know some things about her since her confession..
She got hurt really bad from her 1st guy ever, 2 years ago, and now she is protecting
herself.

There were many "players" guys hitting her but she was just playing them, testing them,
but as far as I know they were pressuring her for sex stuff etc, so she left them ALL
wanting some more of her...

One good clue here, is she is the one to hit on me, out of the blue, so she is talking the
truth for sure.

Just, want to balance the trust with her with seducing her and moving things forward.

Let the mass over-analsys on your part begin. She told you she likes you, next step is to start progression, ask her on a real date, then follow dating rules from there. If she says "no" or brushes you off, then she is just screwing with you.

[oldskool83]

Take her for a date if you can....but to me i say shes just haning in bars (or whevere your drinking) to find attention.

[DVR1]

Let the mass over-analsys on your part begin. She told you she likes you, next step is to start progression, ask her on a real date, then follow dating rules from there. If she says "no" or brushes you off, then she is just screwing with you.

Just for the records:

We already have the 1st flake.

I called her, she rejected the call after 2 sec.
The she texts me this (15 min later): " I'm busy at the office ",
Another text from her (30 min later): " Come on, tell me, want you want me? "

Me: " Today, is your lucky day ; ) "
Her: " What you want? "
Me: " Beer tonight @ [place's name], @ 22:00, don't be late : P "
Her: " I can't, I have work to do tomorrow "

And that's it.

Quite dry all her responses...It's obvious she will play hard to get after
revealing her interest for me.

Should I wait now for her to reciprocate contact within the week?

*Really "scares" me the idea of another flaky woman who enjoys chasing.

[oldskool83]

let it go.

[Cerby]

Just for the records:

We already have the 1st flake.

I called her, she rejected the call after 2 sec.
The she texts me this (15 min later): " I'm busy at the office ",
Another text from her (30 min later): " Come on, tell me, want you want me? "

Me: " Today, is your lucky day ; ) "
Her: " What you want? "
Me: " Beer tonight @ [place's name], @ 22:00, don't be late : P "
Her: " I can't, I have work to do tomorrow "

And that's it.

Quite dry all her responses...It's obvious she will play hard to get after
revealing her interest for me.

Should I wait now for her to reciprocate contact within the week?

*Really "scares" me the idea of another flaky woman who enjoys chasing.

Nothing wrong with a chase as long as it ends in a catch. You need to follow up with "When is a good time for me to take you to dinner?" or something like that. If she gives you anything else other than a time (or conversation leading to a time), don't even respond, just let it go. If you're afraid of being another guy she is towing along, save yourself and don't let yourself be put there.

[cheekxs]

i dont know how old u and her are but thats why people get hurt sometimes! they r to busy with the outside and forget to look at the inside!she can be a beautyful bad b!tch! just get to know her to see what she is about!

[haxan]

Good looking women like/ and are use to attention. She wanted your attention, that doesn't seem so strange. I guess she let you know in that last exchange that she got your attention and she'll be calling the shots from now on.

It's dependent on how much you want to keep 'her' attention now.

[searock]

She sounds like a bitch! Why would she treat you like that if she were truly interested in you? I'd ask her once to suggest a time and place for a date, and if she doesn't, then forget about her and move on to someone who doesn't play games.

[DVR1]

Update (v2):

She flaked and lied to me ...

A friend of mine saw her last night having a beer with her close girl friend.

It's ok to me, but she should tell me that. She was the one to hit on me ....
Not me...

So, guys, is this woman worth chasing energy or bye -bye?

[oldskool83]

she needs to go like most of them.

[Cerby]

Update (v2):

She flaked and lied to me ...

A friend of mine saw her last night having a beer with her close girl friend.

It's ok to me, but she should tell me that. She was the one to hit on me ....
Not me...

So, guys, is this woman worth chasing energy or bye -bye?

If you need to ask then any advice we give will be on deaf ears anyways. This is a COMPLETE waste of time now.

And for the record, she doesn't really need to tell you anything, she isn't in a relationship with you.