So I was hoping I would be able to get some advice on my current relationship problem, any advice would be appreciated.
So Im falling in love with one of my guys friends, and I don't know what to do. Basically I've never cared about anyone as much as I do him, ever. This type of love is different from past ones, it's much deeper. More of a feeling of deep affection and care, protectiveness, and you can tell it's mutual. My best friend has noticed how we act around each other and its almost like a push and pull. When one of us has something on our mind, or is unhappy or hurt it affects the other.This may also be due to the fact that we have hung out almost every day without fail for the last few months. But idk, its still a new feeling, one I've never felt before...
But anyways on to the question. I am growing more and more in love with him each day, and I want to know if there is a chance that we may be able to work ourselves into a relationship. Currently my (soon to be ex)boyfriend is moving out of my house, and the guy I like has a new girlfriend, who he met while I was on vacation 2wks ago.
Even though he has a girlfriend now he is still super friendly with me, picks me up and carries me, will mess with my hair, always asks if i need anything, will make me plates of food, we'll eat off each others plates, etc. We just do that, it's a back and forth thing. And I would like to add in that it's not like i've known him for ages, we just became extremely close in the last couple months.
I've also noticed he doesn't like it when me, his girlfriend, and my best friend all hang out for girl time, he always comes over to join us. Or if I want to drive to the store and ask his girlfriend if she wants to come he'll tell me he will take me. Dont know if I'm over thinking that one.. but thought it was worth mentioning.
So my biggest problem is what to do. I don't want to tell him how I feel because just being a part of his life means the world to me. I wouldn't want to jeapordize our friendship just to know... although on the other hand if a relationship were to come of it it would be well worth it.
So theres the dilema, how should I approach this?