Oral Sex: yes or no?

[CAM]

Pearl necklace...never done it before. I think it is a demeaning porn-esque act.

[bulrush]

I'm not trying to be mean here. Most guys like to receive oral. They just like a variety of things during sex. I can see more than a few guys leaving Fru over this issue. I suggest you find some guy who doesn't want to receive oral. Make sure you talk about it early in the relationship, like the first time you have sex. Be honest so you don't waste his time or yours.

[smackie9]

Pearl necklace...never done it before. I think it is a demeaning porn-esque act.

Says you!...........

[smackie9]

I'm not trying to be mean here. Most guys like to receive oral. They just like a variety of things during sex. I can see more than a few guys leaving Fru over this issue. I suggest you find some guy who doesn't want to receive oral. Make sure you talk about it early in the relationship, like the first time you have sex. Be honest so you don't waste his time or yours.

Or you can have shared fun with a fleshlight.

[CAM]

Or you can have shared fun with a fleshlight.

Not ashamed to admit it...I've used a fleshlight and it can be better than the "real thing."

[iamaninnocentma]

suck a torch? wtf perverts

[smackie9]

Not ashamed to admit it...I've used a fleshlight and it can be better than the "real thing."

It's one of the most talked about sex toys on the market. I like how they have it disguised as beer....

[Lovinyou]

It'll be exciting. I like to put my bit in my gfs mouth always. Thought of it will always switch me on immediately. But she may not like it always. It'll be a new pleasure experience for you. Try it once!

[boobaa]

Ok, so I'm rather inexperienced. I'm not a virgin, but I've never done oral.

My question is, did you enjoy it the first time (either giving or receiving), and before you had any, did the thought of it make you excited?

I'm asking because the thought of putting a guy's bits in my mouth really turns me OFF. I don't think it's wrong or anything, but the thought just disgusts me. And I don't like the idea of his mouth being down there in my bits either.

I probably just sound like a prude... but like I said, I don't have a problem with other people doing it ... I just can't see myself doing it. But then a lot of people seem to think it's a necessary part of a healthy relationship.

Thoughts? Opinions??

I suppose you don't shave either. If you can't be comfortable with your own body parts and fluids, how can you ever be comfortable with someone elses? What does sex mean to you?

[haxan]

I suppose you don't shave either.

I could/would never be with a woman long term that shaved. One of the most unattractive things a woman can do to her body imo. Sweet, clean, slightly trimmed = perfect :-)

[Wakeup]

I suppose you don't shave either. If you can't be comfortable with your own body parts and fluids, how can you ever be comfortable with someone elses? What does sex mean to you?

I suppose you DO shave. Shaved male body parts make you look like a store mannequin before the window dresser did they're job.

[boobaa]

I suppose you DO shave. Shaved male body parts make you look like a store mannequin before the window dresser did they're job.

That is trivial. I had the same thoughts before, but now that I shave, it feels awesome and makes certain acts more awesome. My balls actually itch less and there is more air in my pants.
I know who I am, and I am not a store mannequin, I am a living being.

[Wakeup]

It may be trivial to you, sport however; then it's no more trivial then your "I suppose you don't shave either" as you put it to the Oposter.
I find bald male genitals visually troubling. I'm a visual/tactile/sensory kind of lover. I'm with Haxion on this one. Nicely trimmed and smelling sweet is puurrrrfect on males too.

[Love master]

Ok, so I'm rather inexperienced. I'm not a virgin, but I've never done oral.

My question is, did you enjoy it the first time (either giving or receiving), and before you had any, did the thought of it make you excited?

I'm asking because the thought of putting a guy's bits in my mouth really turns me OFF. I don't think it's wrong or anything, but the thought just disgusts me. And I don't like the idea of his mouth being down there in my bits either.

I probably just sound like a prude... but like I said, I don't have a problem with other people doing it ... I just can't see myself doing it. But then a lot of people seem to think it's a necessary part of a healthy relationship.

Thoughts? Opinions??

I like it, but there are some risks - health risks, may be you know about them. This is the problem.

[Love master]

Pearl necklace...never done it before. I think it is a demeaning porn-esque act.

Hehe, pearl necklace?