Hi all.
Been with my girlfriend for 2.5years now, but at the moment having a few problems with her, especially with her attitude. Up until recently we were having sex very very rarely (say once every 2 months, maybe longer sometimes). I spoke to her over and over again and asked her what the problem was, but she said nothing was wrong and she said she knew it was affecting me. I said i am willing to help her if shes got a problem because i dont want to put pressure on her, just want us to get back to normal.
Anyway, recently things have gotten a lot better, so whatever was wrong has somehow gone from her mind. But even so she never ever ever makes a move on me (this has been going on over a year now) she always turns her back to me when going to sleep (nothing unusual there) but even so she never turns around to face me for a cuddle, or anything, she never instigates anything with me, and its getting me down a bit as if she doesnt fancy me. But when i make a move on her she loves it.
Second problem is she stopped smoking about a year ago now, but has recently started smoking when shes out drinking again, which i cannot stand and she knows it really really gets me down.
So alst night shes out and i go anc pick her up and she had been smoking. So i just asked her please can she stop smoking (her father has lung diseasse from smoking) because i dont want anything to happen to her, I dont want me and her 2 kids to go through the heartach of losing her to something so stupid.
So after a bit of an argument (she cant talk like an adult about this subject) she basically tells me "like it or **** off" and then 2 mins later tells me "Your so perfect, I love you and your to good for me and im horrible to you"
So basically is there anything i can do to sort these to things out? first one is her lack of coming onto me in bed, and the second one being her terrible attitude towards me.
Thanks for any help