Okay, so my ex-gf broke up with me almost a month ago and I still have really strong feelings for her. We had been happily together for 6 months before this, and I truly love this girl and I'll do whatever it takes to get her back. I want to show her that I still care about her in hopes of re-attracting her and getting back together. The problem is we're in "no contact" and have been for almost a month now, and I'm wondering who should break it first, me or her? Another issue is the upcoming summer. We'll both be away at camps and I wanna do something before she leaves to show her how much she means to me, soooooooo.... I think I'm gonna write her a song on acoustic guitar, bike to her house the night before she leaves for camp and serenade her. Maybe bake her something, too. Girls, please be honest: would YOU consider getting back with your ex-bf if he did this for you? Be completely honest, because if it sounds desperate and weird then I'm not gonna do it. But if you think I can win her back by doing it, please tell me any pointers you may have. Thank you SO MUCH!
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Just a few things to clear up as to why our relationship ended in the first place:
1) she felt like we were no longer connecting as deeply and that we were "growing apart"
2) she wanted to take a break and focus on other things in her life, so she'd rather just have me as a close friend than a boyfriend.
3) I'm pretty sure she sort of lost attraction for me or began to think of me only as a friend and not a boyfriend.
All of these facts combined led me to form this plan. I love this girl, and when I say that I mean it. I want to show her i'm still the guy she came to love in the first place and most importantly I want her to be happy.
Should I still do it?? i hope that clears up a few questions... once again, thank you all so much for the help!