Is she doing wrong or am I too?

[Smithc727]

Ok me and my wife have been together for 2 years we've been married for a year. This is the debating part.
My name : Cody

Her name : Brittany

What she does/did to me :

Brittany says stuff like this

She hates living with my dad shes miserable i am fun for the first few days then i get boring shes bored of me
She says its fun to live with her dad
But her dad is very rude to me.
She doesn't treat me with respect at all.
I am nothing but nice to her.
She is very rude with me.

She is always rude with company around
she is not nice alot of the time
she calls me names like ding dong
shes hypocrictal she tells me when i need to get a job but im training for the military and going to school
she doesn't even think i am going to make i
t she has no hope for me
she says im boring.
always bragging about how pretty she is but she says no im not every single time
try to get her to make love but always has excuses
talked trash about my parents

What I does/did to her :

When we get into arguments I argue back heavily.
I cheated on her once when we started dating for like 2 weeks into it
She supported me up until few months ago
Now I am going to support her I will be making 61k a year
really flirty
Always telling her i love her
always bragging about how pretty she is but she says no im not every single time
try to get her to make love but always has excuses
talked trash about her parents




Any thoughts & inputs?

[KristenElaine]

Niether of you seem happy. I think you guys got married to soon. Unless both of you make drastic changes in yourselves and how you communicate and get along, this marriage is coming to a quick end.

[JasonHJJ]

Thanks for your post.