Advice for a strange relationship

[blessings]

The friendship started long before the marriage ever came about or I even knew my husband

[Wakeup]

So? What is your point? You didn't address the question.

[IndiReloaded]

Agreed^. So what? You don't really know anything about this guy, certainly not in any romantic sense, which seems to be where you are going.

You husband is a known quantity, whatever his issues. Are you saying you want to divorce (again, perhaps?) and chase this 'friend' who never made a move on you when you were single?

[shadowmoon]

Yes he does! He knows everything about me. I think I know everything about him. Obviously I cannot be certain because he is not sitting in front of me....but we have always had this very open and nearly innocently relaxed relationship. How long have you talked with your penpal? Does he know you are married? I know this sounds crazy, but it is comforting to know someone has these crazy thoughts too!

Hmmmmmmm........... maybe we can talk in private. just mail me at [email]shadowmoon384@gmail.com[/email]