Hey, I'm a girl, 22 years old, and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now.
We met in a club and it was love at first sight. From that moment on, we've never been apart for more than 2 or 3 days. The first 2 months, we saw each other a lot, and in this period he still had a lot of problems with money, his family... I supported him and helped him through all that. Then when he was kicked out of his father's house because they don't get along, he had to move to his mother. But his mother never really cared about him. So it was really hard for him. I wanted to be there for him and help him with everything. So I moved to his mother's house with him. I helped him clean, cook, do the groceries. I was always there for him. Everything went really well between us. But almost a week ago, we decided that I would move back home. Because it was hard for my parents that I just left. And because I wanted to start an education. We talked and he said that this would be good for us. That I didn't have to worry about nothing. That he loves me with all my heart and that he will never let me go. That we would spend the weekends together. That everything would turn out great between us.
At first he sent me messages about how much he missed me, that it was hard without me. That I have to realize how much he really cares about me and loves me. But he has to work a lot! And I almost didn't hear about him the last few days. Then in the weekend, when we were supposed to be together, he said he couldn't be with me because he was too tired and wanted to sleep early.. and that he had to work on saturday. He said we were going to meet on saturday.. When saturday was there, he didn't want to meet again. So I really began to worry. I almost didn't here from him.
Sunday morning he sent me a message. That he went out on friday night, didn't sleep and then got straight to work. And that he was so tired on saturday that he almost directly fell asleep. He also sent me that he still loved me, but he needs time for himself. He said that he has to work so much, that he wants to be free. That he hopes I understand that. Then I sent a sweet understanding text message, but I didn't hear from him again for hours. Then in the evening he texted me that he went to the beach in another country so he couldn't text me. That he loves me with all his heart but needs time alone. I sent him back, but again didn't hear from him anymore. I'm so scared.. I don't know what this means! Everything went so well between us. Now he just wants to be alone, I hear almost nothing from him. When he texts me he says me that he loves me, but I don't know ...
Can anyone help me? I'm feeling really really said. Been crying all day.
Is it normal for a boy to act like that when he loves you. It feels like he doesn't miss me at all. Like he's letting me go! Please someone help me . I'm devastaded!