Sooo...my story is fairly long...but I really need advice. I'm pretty confused and scared at this point and here is why...
When I was 17 I started dating a girl...things got pretty serious pretty fast. She was a few months older and had just turned 18...well one night she got kicked out of her house (Her mom is a nut) and I told her that she could come stay with me. Well...my parents were okay with her living with us for a short period of time. We tried to get her back on her feet a bit because she has Siezures and she was on disability until it got cut off. We faught long and hard with lawyers and such....so long that it took about 2 years before we decided just to give up. During those 2 years tentions began getting high between me, her, and my parents. She really wasnt helping around the house or anything...really wasnt motivated to do much of anything...that is until she got a job (Finally). Once she got a job things started getting a bit better...her attitude was better and she was more happy-go-lucky about a lot of stuff...and she was able to help out financially (which was great considering all of the finances were on my parents and I for the past years with all three of us working full time jobs). We were gonna start saving to get out and get our own place but then my car finally kicked the dirt...which meant I needed to get another one. I purchased a car with my money but that set us back a bit...so a few months went by and we were getting on our feet again until I ended up injuring my foot which ended up being about 1000 bucks in hospital bills...which again had set us back. Not too long after that (this is in the very recent past) I found out that I was getting promoted at my job and getting transfered to our other store to be a team leader there. I was a bit scared and excited at first but I started talkin to one of the other managers down at the other store and just so happened she is a girl...We hung out a few times and then...idk..there was just something about this girl..so I called off my 3 year relationship with my long time girlfriend to persue a new life. Now I am at a crossroads...I care about them both and I'm scared that I might be making the wrong decision. I know that my long time girlfriend loves me so much and still....after all this she still supports me. But this new girl has more going for her in the long run...the only bad thing is that she has a kid and I'm not sure if we did get serious that I'm ready to be a dad or what...i mean I love kids and everything I just dont know...
Both girls have baggage...one girl has seizures, cant drive, always has to depend on me...the other one has a kid.
I feel like I gave a good summary of everything so just let me know if ya have any questions. Thanks.