Originally Posted by
shadower4
sorry if this is in the wrong place... so i tried match.com sent out like 12 messages and did not get a single reply. 2 of those 12 actually took the time to look at my profile but decided not to reply. If i try e harmony do you think i will have better luck? Do people on e harmony have the common courtesy to actually reply nicely saying not interested? I am a good looking 19 year old male who just wants companionship now that summer is coming and i am out of college, someone i could go to the beach with etc...
I kinda have a similar question so i'll look forward to some replies. It really depends on a lot of factors. What you say is important as much as what you look like (sorry but saying all the right things is not enough). I find that going out and meeting people is much easier and more effective for me (i'm early 30's but look much younger). I don't know i think pretty much all women want a guy looking manly(even the younger ones) so if you have a kid look going you won't get too many replies. The fact that it's much tougher to get responses and see your personality through a web site doesn't help either (and this is a huge part imo) and so out in the real world you can easily show that person the real you.
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings