What are the best qualities in a lover? (Straight girls answer please)

[haxan]

But... but I *saw* one of these gods come to life! I was just too darn shy to ask him to toss me over his shoulder so I could make him breakfast!

Well, there are always exceptions to the norm, but in general........

They can be so sexy, and masculine, waiting a 1/4 down the road while LE secures the scene (a fight between 2 people and 1 of them has already left) :-D I'm just teasing, I love my buddies in the BRT's ! :-)

"breakfast" huh? Oh brother.. :-P ;-)

[jcorntassel]

Ffs! I am not asking how to have sex. I don't get why you can't just answer the question!

[IndiReloaded]

Sex is a physical form of communication. Many of the same rules apply, IMO.

Ffs! I am not asking how to have sex. I don't get why you can't just answer the question!

ffs! I already posted your answer^! Read much?

empathy, eye contact, attentive, give & take, not too boring, not too crazy, stays on topic, gets to the point... communication = sex

[searock]

We already answered your questions. We told you both what we think the qualities for being a good lover are, and what you wanted to hear (unrelated info about our lovers' occupation and diet). So what's the problem now?

[Wakeup]

.. lol ..

This thread is like an episode of Jerry Seinfeld.. it's about nothing and it's going nowhere.


... Great video though. Merci

[jcorntassel]

ffs! I already posted your answer^! Read much?

empathy, eye contact, attentive, give & take, not too boring, not too crazy, stays on topic, gets to the point... communication = sex

I saiiiid "I am not asking how to have sex". now read your second sentence about eye contact etc, and then find in the original post where I asked about eye contact and
attentiveness. I don't want to be rude but am feeling a bit exasperated here.

[jcorntassel]

We already answered your questions. We told you both what we think the qualities for being a good lover are, and what you wanted to hear (unrelated info about our lovers' occupation and diet). So what's the problem now?

There were about a total of four responses that answered the question in the way I had requested. I understand how the title of the thread may have been a bit
misleading, but I like I said for the millionth time, I have heard over and over again about communication and intimacy and all that sort of stuff. In hindsight I probably should
have presented this as a survey, but that would take ages.

Regardless I'd still like to thank those of you who sincerely hoped to help in your responses. Much appreciated!

[searock]

I don't think anyone of those who gave you info about work/diet had any hope of helping... those who told you what the actual qualities of a good lover are though, probably did. I really can't understand why you are still convinced (even after this thread) that there is a correlation. Ah well :-).

[jcorntassel]

because the data i've gathered is inconclusive on the grounds of a tiny sample space

[searock]

What makes you think that there is a correlation in the first place?

Have you asked any of your female (or male, actually) friends? I'm sure they'd give you the same answers.

[IndiReloaded]

because the data i've gathered is inconclusive on the grounds of a tiny sample space

This is true. Your use of the word 'space' is redundant, btw.