I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, I am from the UK and she is from USA but is currently studying at cambridge. She's been under a lot of stress recently, being at cambridge isn't easy and she's been looking for jobs too which is proving unsuccessful. It's got to the point now that she's up crying a lot of the time and I just want to help, but I don't know how. The main problem is getting a job, if she can't find a job then she has to go back to America, just the thought of that now has reduced me to tears, I can't bare to lose her! It just seems to be really hard to find any jobs though because they only want to accept people who are eligible to work in the UK, and it's hard to get a UK Visa unless you have a job already offered to you (bit of an endless circle). I don't know what I can do to help her, I just feel so useless and the possibility that she'll have to go back to America scares me senseless!!!