I don't know what to do about it... I don't know how to respond to her.
I sent her an email asking that instead of summer school, that she let him come and spend the summer with me. She responded with "I will get back to you.
In the meantime, I would appreciate an answer to this question - if you are unemployed, how do you propose to take care of ____'s needs while he would be with you?"
Now obviously, I'm not starving and homeless. Even she's not so stupid as to believe that I would invite him here without the means to keep him healthy and protected. She's merely doing this to try and hurt me. How the **** should I respond to this?
I had drafted an email that went thus:
"This is a form of abuse called "Using the children". As I have indicated in the past, I will no longer participate in your abusive games. You may choose whether or not hurting me is more important to you than hurting Gabe; you may choose to say yes or no. Please at least do Gabe the courtesy of asking him what he wants to do.
D____"
My wife has told me (rightly so) that getting her blood up is not the way to get what I want (which is a summer with my progeny), and that I should remove the "As I have indicated in the past...." sentence. What should I say? How should I handle this?