I have not have an orgasim with my partner.

[effie]

Hi everyone, this worries me a lot, because i can have orgasims, with my vibrator or with his fingers, but only, if i also have my hand on my clit as well, do any other partners have this problem.

[stuckies]

'problem'?? I think you'll find most women will have a clitoral orgasm by manual stimulation alone....How old are you?

[effie]

What differece about the age complx issue.

[gardenofjade]

some women are addicted to vibrators.

[thiudiskr]

How can you have an orgasm if you're too busy worrying about not having one?

[Nikki93]

A lot of women can't have a orgasm with just penetration (it's normal) maybe use a vibrated or stimulate the clit at the same time of having sex with him.
Talk to him about it.

[smackie9]

Good oral..........tell him.

[thiudiskr]

Good oral..........tell him.

He could lick until he gets to the center of the tootsie pop - if she's nervous, she's not going to have it.

[bcgirl]

OP i think you are clueless in the sex department. Perhaps educating yourself would be a starter. Most women can not orgasm with just plain intercourse alone. The movies you've been watching are not references to what real sex should be like. Most women (like myself) can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. Your boyfriend would have to perform lots of oral and foreplay for you to be able to orgasm.

[Wot2do]

Yes I have had alot of girlfriends who dont get off from penetration but I get them off with foreplay first, if you get off with foreplay sometimes its easier after if he penetrates straight away. Another thing is too that your sex toys could be desensitising you to normal stimulation. A guy doesnt vibrate like that nor can he go that deep maybe.

[smackie9]

He could lick until he gets to the center of the tootsie pop - if she's nervous, she's not going to have it.

She doesn't sound nervous to me......