Torn Between Two Lovers?

[Bossladyakamia]

Omg, dude.. Your ex cheated on you not once but twice?? And you still love her for her deceitful ways? You have a wonderful, loving wife who is faithful to you, what more do you need?
Sorry buddy, but you have your love wires all mixed up, You need to get it right dude.. Maybe polygamy will be the best choice for you... Jmo though!

[MisguidedHeart]

I've asked them if I can be with both.. Aprils up for it cuz she loves me and wants me to be happy but Lori dont wanna share and its just wrong to be with two women but hey I wouldnt mind more loving for me lol but not fair to them two... so yeah... I'm all screwed up and heartless I know but hey they still want me so maybe theyre more screwed up then I am lol but I love them tho'

[MisguidedHeart]

Omg, dude.. Your ex cheated on you not once but twice?? And you still love her for her deceitful ways?

Oh and she didnt really cheat on me because I was with april at the time so I dont think I should count it as cheating..
Yes it hurts and badly and lowers my self esteem cuz the guys she chose were alot different then me in some ways
not going into details..

But it dont count as cheating.. I dont think? we were separated..

[miffy]

I first put this off as a major troll. It really just didn't make much sense. But the longer you talk about it, the more legitimate it seems.

I think you have a serious, serious issue with yourself, not the two of them. I cannot in all honesty believe that you do not feel more strongly for one of them, or at least realize rationally that one of them makes you happier. It says more about you that you're so indecisive than it does about them. Besides, only one of them really wants you exclusively and seems to really love you, your wife. The other one just enjoys you and enjoys playing with you. That's what it seems like. So dump her, get the heck over her, and be with your wife. Not because it's the holy sacrament of whatever, you did get married in Vegas after all. But because she seems dedicated and devoted to you, and you'Re being completely unfair to her. Frankly, it's amazing that she's still with you after all the crap you're putting her through.

Cut all ties with the ex, and be happy with your wife. She has deserved it, your ex hasn't. And you wouldn't either from the way you're behaving, but if you're wife chooses to stay with you inspite of all this, you're a lucky man. Appreciate it.

[diana620]

Go back to your wife.She is the right choice.Cut yourself off from your ex,i am sure she will cheat on you again.

[MisguidedHeart]

Well I got up today with my wife after we had our aniversary night we sat on the couch just talking making small talk..
Then all you know a knock on the door who is it? none other then my ex -_-;

So she asked me did I decide yet? I said no I havent even got a chance to think about it...
April's like I'll leave you two alone to talk.. I said No! I want both of you to hear this..

So they both sat down I told Lori how I felt about her sleeping with the other men and how I felt about her and how all this started
and how we came to an end and how I still feel about her..

I said how I made a home with april, I see a future with april, and how I see the love that april has for me and that I don't think that in the end april
will hurt me.. And that I just don't feel anything from lori the that I feel from april so on and on....

I said if we can work it out for all of us to be together some way and be under strict rules and whoever breaks them is out of the picture..
Or I'm going to have to choose april because she is my wife and my home.. And I have to let you go 100% completely..

So she said shes gonna go home and proccess this and see if I'm even worth trying.. Cuz she dont want to share...

If you think all this is weird.. Trying to get these two girls to be with me at once it's not weird in my world my Mom has done it..
Shes been living with two lovers for the past almost 7yrs and they couldnt be any happier they have a beautiful family beautiful houses
they sleep together but the two lovers have no contact with eachother they are just with my mom not eachother they had their fare share in the
beginning of fights and arguments and the sharing thing was hard but in the end they couldnt be any happier..

Believe me my mom has given me and my girls plenty of talks and advice on how to make it work but everyones different I guess..

And how can you say this is a troll message? tell me who can come up with this stuff out of the blue?

We'll see later whats loris choice if she can think it will work and how april feels about it if it works great I will try my hardest to make both of them happy and keep them on a tight leash so they dont go after eachother..

If lori decides I'm not worth the trouble then I'm here with my wife making it up to her with every moment and doing my best to get my ex out of my hair..

I will post on lori's decision you guys know whats going on incase your staying tuned and interested after that I will let your imaginations run free cuz I prolly wont be updating after that

[miffy]

yeah, convinced it's a troll now

"And how can you say this is a troll message? tell me who can come up with this stuff out of the blue?" - too obvious mate, way too obvious

[MisguidedHeart]

yeah, convinced it's a troll now

"And how can you say this is a troll message? tell me who can come up with this stuff out of the blue?" - too obvious mate, way too obvious

I swear to you its not a troll msg not even sure what that means? Does it mean fake? It's not this is my real life happening I just though people would want to see what my choices are sheesh I'm sorry for even posting all I got was critizism anyways..

All I wanted was some help thats all but you guys are hateful All you do is critisize I read many peoples posts asking for help and thats all you do is shoot them down I dont see why people come here in the first place I'm not coming here anymore thats for sure I'll get my help elsewhere

a--holes..

P.S. No offence to the ones actually giving me any advice much appreciated and all of it was tooken in thought..
But the rest of you I dont understand how your not banned...

[MisguidedHeart]

Wanna see a troll I'll show you a troll...

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MisguidedHeart]

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MisguidedHeart]

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MisguidedHeart]

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MisguidedHeart]

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MisguidedHeart]

Thanks for nothing @$$HOLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[searock]

Well if your mom has two boyfriends, then I can see why you would put yourself in a similar situation - it's normal to you, since you grew up thinking it was normal. Good for you then, if they both agree to it and you are all happy with it.