How to kill a boner? doing it right?

[Togoru]

So my boyfriend and I were having sex. We went a couple times and he mentally wanted to go for another but his penis hurt to be hard at that point. He wanted to think of things to make the boner go away since it hurt so he said "I need to think of something gross. What's something gross?" and one of the first things he said was some girl's name. I know of this girl and I always thought she was pretty and attractive. Apparently even though she's pretty it's still possible she's still "gross" in my boyfriend's eyes? I didn't quite understand why. Then to help eliminate the boner he also said her ex boyfriend's name and then thought of them both I suppose and it worked to kill the boner. It was unusual he mentioned her name and her ex boyfriend. It's possible to think of what I always considered an attractive girl but which he thinks is gross to get rid of your boner? and then her also ex boyfriend? uhmm? Well what do you guys think?

[bcgirl]

couldn't he just think of his grandma instead?

[searock]

Did he have any reason to believe that you might have been jealous of this girl? If so, maybe he said her name to "prove" to you that you have no reason to be jealous.

Or maybe he actually does find her unattractive. There are girls whom I think are pretty, and lots of guys too, but whom my boyfriend (or other guy friends of mine) finds unattractive. It's not uncommon, I'm sure you know at least one "standardly" good-looking guy, whom you aren't attracted to even though some of your female friends are.

Or, he may just have thought about her ex boyfriend, but didn't want you to think that it was because he was somehow into the girl, so he said her name first.

Anyway, why is it so important to you?

[vashti]

A penis isn't supposed to *hurt* when it is hard. If it does, there is a problem, and he should see a doctor.

On the other hand, who doesn't know that in order to get rid of boner, you just need to stop touching it? You sound too young to be having sex.

[oldskool83]

im prego always works...........

[asdfg789]

i know ! i know ! pour some ice cold water over it. if that doesn't work, see a doctor ... (:

[bulrush]

A penis isn't supposed to *hurt* when it is hard. If it does, there is a problem, and he should see a doctor.

On the other hand, who doesn't know that in order to get rid of boner, you just need to stop touching it? You sound too young to be having sex.

First, it's normal for young men to sometimes have a long-lasting erection, and it can get painful after a while. (Well it happened to me sometimes.) Even if he doesn't have sex at all. The pain can come from blood buildup in the penis. An erection lasting 4 hours should get medical attention as tissue death could start occuring after that point.

Boner killers (some from Quagmire):

• Think of nuns.
• Dead kittens
• Greasy pork sandwich served in a dirty ashtray
• Child support
• Having sex with a brick wall
• Syphilis
• Chlamidia
• Zombies
• Grandmas in lingerie
• Politics

[HeartIsAching]

A penis isn't supposed to *hurt* when it is hard. If it does, there is a problem, and he should see a doctor.

On the other hand, who doesn't know that in order to get rid of boner, you just need to stop touching it? You sound too young to be having sex.

It does get achy when it's been erect for too long. I don't mean priapism, just long-lasting erections. It's a problem for young men with raging hormones, LOL.

[smackie9]

couldn't he just think of his grandma instead?

That was my answer too

[bcgirl]

Think of nuns.

there are tons of men out there who have a thing for good girls in nuns outfits....

Grandmas in lingerie

again....there are men with fetishes for women over 60....I've seen porno magazines of old ladies in lingerie *it was gross*

[oldskool83]

put him out side and lock the door.

[Superfantastich]

Put on the movie 'Teeth'. Worked (unintentionally) for my boyfriend

[HeartIsAching]

^^^Ahahahaha!!! Great suggestion!

[CAM]

I think of funerals. That kills it right away.