1. Try not to stress over this. Try different things and see what you like. Some women only orgasm with a very specific stimulus. Explore explore explore.
2. My experience shows the G spot does exist in many women, but not all. I think a woman's orgasmic ability has a lot to do with how open-minded they are (which relates to how they were raised and what they were taught about sex), and how relaxed they are. Sex drive hormones also play a part. Some women just are more horny than others. Not sure which hormone increases a woman's sex drive. Maybe testosterone plays a part?
3. Get a vibrator shaped to hit the G spot just right. It has a curve on the end and looks much like a man's P spot vibrator (to stimulate the prostate). Just try it and see what you think. A waterproof vibrator will allow you to have some bathtub fun.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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