So i was seeing this guy i had known for a while, he seemed great, i knew him for about a year before the night we actually kissed and we got along well as friends, then we kissed unexpectedly one night and there had been attraction ever since. At first i was skeptical about seeing anybody new.. I didnt want to be pulled into anything serious, but i felt myself thinking about him more than i usually would. Started getting excited to receive calls or texts from him.
Since my breakup it was the first time i had actually liked anybody. He was very persistant about hanging out after we kissed, i left it a few days to see him again.
We hung out and i had SO much fun, i felt happy with him and we had a great time. He continued to ask me to hang out everyday, so we would see each other like every other night. We kissed, but i refused to sleep with him. So glad i did.lol
He would tell me he liked me a lot and felt happy when i was around and he seemed so sincere. I never wanted to rush anything but i was happy with how things were going.
Last week he had asked if i would spend the weekend with him. I agreed, i had no other plans. Yesterday he didnt text me all too much.. Didnt think too much of it, figured i would text him and ask what it was he wanted to do that night. He said he didnt know, didnt ask my plans or anything. So i knew something was a little off. I invited him to the local bar for a few drinks with a few friends and he declined.
When i got there he was already there, which was kind of a slap in the face. So i just did my own thing and tried to ignore it. A few drinks went down and i decided to go talk to him. He didnt say all too much, just acted cocky in a way, like he hardly knew me at all. I text him after i left and said that it was a harsh way to act and he pretty much just said 'look i dont want a relationship and he doesnt think he did anything wrong'.
I felt so hurt about it, i couldnt believe we had spent that time together and he said all those things and just forgotten me in a couple of hours.
I know it was only a few weeks we had hung out but he made me feel comfortable with him, like there was something between us and how much he wanted to see me helped me believe he really felt the same way.
I feel so stupid about it.. How could i have misread everything like that? I know i blew it last night, i should have just completely ignored him and acted like it was nothing, but i had to say something because i just wanted to understand why. Needless to say he hasnt contacted me today..
Any input? Does anyone have any advice for me, for the next time maybe? I apparently have no idea how to date or anything like this.